sooooooo, I have been spotting for 5 days now..went to get a u/s on Tuesday and the midwife told me in the most insensitive way that there is no evidence of a baby. never sent me for blood work, basically accept that my baby is gone. I took another pregnancy test the next day and it read pregnant 3+ (week earlier was 1-2) needless to say I ended my relationship with that midwife. I called my obgyn office and get a referral for blood work yesterday. the secretary informs me the results should come back today. no call all day. I call at 3 and leave a message... still no call. guess I have to wait until Monday. smh am I the only one that gives a fuck about this red shit coming out of me? wtf! I feel deep down that my sun is growing and the ultra sound was just too early. I also made a protection necklace to keep us safe. But damn, can a momma get some confirmation!!!! fucking assholes! #sorryhadtovent this red shit has to stop.
I did get blood work done later by my endocrinologist which showed hormone levels right where I thought they should be. so yay for the endocrinologist boo for my obgyns
I can totally relate! I had some spotting at 5 weeks and when I went in for my 7 week check up I was measuring small and they couldn't find the heartbeat and the obgyn tried to get me to get a D&C but then she sent me for an ultrasound and the Sonographer was more optimistic. The obgyn didn't even do any blood work so I switched obgyns. But my new obgyn keeps pushing back my appointment. I just want to see that our baby is alive!
well the dr won't call until Monday and you need answers urgently. I went and they did my lab tests, and everything was fine. it took two hours and they won't let you leave until they tell you everything
that's what I think I am going to do tomorrow. my grandmother wants me to wait for the doctor to call but wth does it take that long for results to come in? Ima just say fuck it for a clear mind. what happened when you went? @lc
Awww man. mine are almost that bad. I hope he gets back to you quickly. I'm already annoyed with these heal care individuals.. I'm sending u healing and protective energy for you and your little sweet thing @elliot.s
I was told to watch out for really bad cramping worse than period cramps because that with bleeding would mean the m word. however if there is no blood it's just the body stretching and doing its thing. how far are you? have u had any spotting? @elliot.s