I'm NOT happy. me and my bd just had a talk. he doesn't want the baby. I tried to tell him everything is gonna be okay and we'll make it through this together. he said he doesn't know. now he's saying he's not going anywhere. I asked him wtf he meant by he doesn't know. he can't explain it. I'm emotionally terrified. help me please!😭😩
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@love_music014, well I hope it gets better for you I will pray for you babes 😊
Oh okay I see well what does he wanna do? I feel sad for u, that he would spring this on you now, try not to stress cause your early pregnant and stress is not good@love_music014
@denielle1224, is right. he's scared. its a HUGE HUGE responsibility and changes your life forever. he will come around.
my man didn't want that baby at first either. I told him to fuck him self we are keeping it. if your man enough to hit it raw with me not on birth control you can take care if a baby. every action has a reaction. so, we obviously kept the baby but after a month of fighting and almost breaking up. it was terrible. but we made it threw it all. and now he's so happy, once I started to show is when he real sensitive and yesterday we found out he's getting a little boy....I've never seen my man happier. just let him know its a life he created and its NOT just something to throw away. (no pun intended) but if you choose to "deal with it" you have plenty of mommas on her to have your back and support you and help. good luck lady😘💕
@mrssabby, we used a condom he got from the health department
He is really just scared I think. It takes awhile for the father to accept and understand. He very well could come around.
@love_music014, so he wanted a baby but he didn't want you to get pregnant right now, did he want you to wait? And if so were you guys using birthcontrol? Cause if he didn't want ya pregnant and no BC was being used then he must have wanted a baby
@denielle1224, tomorrow I'll be 10 weeks @mrssabby he did but not any time soon
Did he want to have a baby before you got pregnant?
@love_music014, thank you, you also😘