Maybe it's just me but it hurts my feelings slightly that whenever my bf family (moms side) does anything or goes out I'm never invited bc she doesn't like me (long story short I took her baby boy from her) but yet his older brothers gf is. (My family includes him in everything!!) His mom n I got into it a year ago bc him n I were fighting n he called mommy to help n she tried to step in n actually caused more of an issue. I said some mean things but a week later sent her a 8 page sorry note n she still to this day hasn't said sorry n she has done n said a lot of hurtful things, even yelled at my family. When she heard I was prego she wanted me to abort my baby but I would never then she started saying I was a slut n blah blah. Well now she tells my bf she wants to b a gma n see my daughter. He told her that she needs to learn to respect me n b nice when I'm around (which is never bc I'm excluded) n she said I'll wait for ur brother to have a baby then, a week later she told him sorry for that n that she can't wait. Well I personally don't want her at the hospital or to see my daughter tell she can learn to respect me as a person no one is saying be my bestie just be civil, is that wrong of me? (Sorry long)
Ok good! If she can act grown then I'd let her be a gma but for now no! @babynova12.5.14
omg that's messed up.. no way are u wrong I wouldn't let her ANYWHERE near my baby or the delivery room.. Don't let her boss you around.
We separated once because of it so I figured I'd stop talking to him about it n when baby is here in feb then I'll face the problem head on n not hold back on how I feel. Thanks for talking tho def needed to vent!!! @tattooedwho
yea i said the same thing to my husband and i said u dont have to be rude to her and he told her about herself lol but he was kinda disrespectful but hey I didn't make him do that I just said don't let her disrespect your wife, especially if I didn't disrespect her first. have u guys ever been apart? maybe if he thinks he'll lose you he'll snap out of it
Omg that's what I say daily! I tell him he's not dating her n she's no longer breast feeding u so get off her nipple n be a man! Stand up for me n our lil family, standing up to her doesn't mean he has to disrespect her or cut her out if his life but he thinks that's what it means. @tattooedwho
I'm sorry you have to deal with that especially pregnant, now more than ever he should be on ur side and keeping you stress free
He feeds into her shit n she manipulates him into being mean to me n creating lies about me n that only gets her going more n more. It's never gonna stop. @tattooedwho
he needs to stand up to her and stop wavering back and forth because he's gonna let her mess up his relationship, he has to stop being a mama's boy he's not in a relationship with her
Haha oh trust me I snapped on her but for the respect if my bf I said sorry n that just back fired on me. She says she isn't for drama but I bet she'd die without it! It's gotten to the point it's getting between me n my bf. after 3 years we have talked about becoming engaged well that's not happening now ever bc he had to tell his mom n she put him in her spell n he told her I was forcing him to ask me n I forced him to get me prego. For one engagement isn't a big thing to me if I wanted it so bad I would have said yes to my ex of 2.5years n for the baby WE weren't trying nor using protection. It's all dumb n getting so old. @tattooedwho
that's so ridiculous that someone that grown is acting that childish it's so dumb. And I wouldn't let her either, my husbands mom hasn't seen my daughter in four months since the shit happened and won't. what's so funny is you can call my husbands work to call me a bitch and be petty but you can't call to see how yr granddaughters doing, so I'm like fuck it.
and I'm like ur old as hell go have a seat instead of sticking ur nose in twenty something yr olds business.... she's so messy and lives for drama and games but I'm not playing with her old ass. and I'm not one to be disrespectful to someone's mom but If your going to dish imma give it right back twenty times harder, I had that old bird in tears. she doesn't even know I'm prego again cause we don't talk to her..I admire how mature U are able it though I wish I was, I told her next time I see her in punching her on sight lol. Sham on me :( but this woman has done so much she deserves it
that's exactly why I cut her out of my sons life because even after we got into it I would still let my son spend time with her until he came home one night and repeated something she said about me and after that I was done my bf agrees with me on not letting them go around her. and with your situation your her mother and if you choose to not let her in your daughters life your bf can't do anything but respect that mother or no mother is always a respect factor if you can't respect me then my kids will have nothing to do with you
She use to blow up my old number telling me I'm trash n she will fuck me up n to leave her son alone bc he doesn't love me n that I'm a slut n that my family is crack heads n wanted me to abort my baby but even after all that I still pushed him to have a relationship n reminded him of her bday n have him go out with her at times. He says he's on my side n he is if he doesn't see her or talk much to her in a period if time but once she starts her manipulating n brainwashing spell he is back to being against me. @tattooedwho it's been over a year this is so old. He told her it needs to end but she says she doesn't like me n has other problems to fix n she's sorry that he wants us to get along but it won't be happening for awhile. Well then she won't be meeting our daughter tell she can act like a grown respectful woman
sounds like me and my MIL except I didn't (and won't) apologize lol. I wish my husband would take her side, he knows better lol. my husband coundnt stand his mom until he met me and i pushed him to have a relationship with her til I saw what she's really about, and i called her ass on it and haven't spoken to her since except to tell her she better not call my house or cell phone ever again in her life lol. and now she tells everyone im stealing her family which isn't true, but whatever I couldn't care less
That's how I feel but now she has my bf wrapped around her finger n he SAYS that she will be in my daughters life n see her when born. I don't think so!!! Not tell she can show me respect n stop trash talking me. I don't need her seeing my daughter n as she gets older bad mouthing me to my daughter too. His mom has a way with babying him n getting him on her side like brainwashing so when they go out together I expect him to come home being mean. N he tells her everything when she has him in her spell from our personal talks to our financial business. She needs to step back n stop being nosey. She can also get him in this mean mood where she calls n he leaves the room n I hear him talking about about me with her. She's terrible but I at least can act grown n civil n respect her.
exactly I'm the one who made him start back talking to get a few months ago if it wasn't for me she would have never been staying with us I've always pushed him to be in her life even when she disrespected us im done trying I'm thru with her she will not be around my kids with her negative ways so I hope it's worth it to not be in her grand kids lives
Omg exactly the same. She will ask him or text him or call him asking about me n the baby then she will bad mouth me. I don't disrespect her at all, I even try to make sure my bf n her keep a good relationship n consider her when we got ultrasound pics but yet I'm trash n a slut n whatever else. It's so childish. She was bitching about my daughters name for weeks it's not her baby n she didn't want me to have her in the beginning so why act like she cares about my daughter now. @babyethansmommy
I know exactly what your going thru I don't speak to my bfs mom we got into it almost 9 months ago she's always been shady to me with the things she does and says but I never would say anything she and his little brother lived with us for 2 years she doesn't work or anything and she had the nerve to talk shit about me one day and that was the last straw I went off it was a big ordeal we stopped talking and going around then she moved out but once she found out I was pregnant she started asking my bf if he was sure it was his baby like we haven't been together for 6 years but she's been trying to ask about me and the baby and our other son but never apologized for the way she acted I tried to let it go because my bfs grandmother is stuck with spine cancer and she wanted us to make it right but everything's she calls and talks to him she says something rude about me not knowing that I'm right there so I don't want anything to do with her she won't see my kids until she grows up sorry for the long comment but I know what your going thru
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