yeah unless you legally have to I wouldn't let him see or talk to the baby

he won't be around unless he takes me to court. in which case I'll have to let him by law. :/ @mrsstewart

I wouldn't let him back in your life or the babies if he decided to I don't think I would even let him in the babies life after he/she was born

@wondermom, if he changes his # I have no way of contacting him. this is all his choice. I'd rather be a single mother then deal with him. I just find it funny that a little over a month ago he wanted to marry me after I had the baby and wanted to take care of me and the baby. and then he left and has been an ass since. I havent done anything other then send him drs appointments and tell him if the Dr said something.

Yeah the worst is a guy coming in and out of a child's life as if it was some sort of joke, nobody got time for that! I am noone to judge but I can't take when guys act like this! I would try him and see if the months change him into a better person before the child is born and if I see no change i wouldn't want nothing to do with that type of negativity in my life. I prefer to be a single mother a million times.

@wondermom, I'm glad you agree. I told him he doesn't have to be around if he doesn't want too. I don't care. but he isn't gonna try and come in and out of my childs life has he pleases.

What an ass