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Jasmine
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Ladies I need some advice. So I started my new job about 2 weeks ago and I'm doing well (sense I was doing sorta kinda…

Ladies I need some advice. So I started my new job about 2 weeks ago and I'm doing well (sense I was doing sorta kinda the samething at my last job) but the weeks are going by fast and don't nobody know that I'm pregnant. (we wear scrubs) I need advice on how to tell my manager that I'm pregnant. I'm so nervous idk what to do. :/

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kennedimom

JasmineВ ожидании первенца

Thanks @mrssabby your absolutely right :)

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mrssabby

🌺Sabrina🌺Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

@kennedymom, @mandi0101111 just tell them ladies and whatever happens will happen, and if they should let you go just know that makes room for something better and more positive 😉

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mandi0101111

mandi0101111Мама сына (2 года), беременна (19 нед.)

me too I really am.

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kennedimom

JasmineВ ожидании первенца

Lol oh I was planning on it @mandi0101111 I'm so freaking nervous tho

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mandi0101111

mandi0101111Мама сына (2 года), беременна (19 нед.)

let's tell our work were pregnant together lol to get it done with. lol I'll tell mine tomorrow and you tell yours too.

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kennedimom

JasmineВ ожидании первенца

I'm part time so I don't qualify for benefits :/ @mrssabby what's the question at the end @mandi0101111

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mandi0101111

mandi0101111Мама сына (2 года), беременна (19 нед.)

I have the same problem I got a second job when I was 10 weeks my pregnant friend actually got me the job. well I didn't tell them and now I'm 17 weeks. I'm scared and I don't know why. my other job I work at a gas station and I told them right away I didn't care but my second job I work as q tutor for young kids. I guess since I'm not married I'm don't want the kiddos to know. I even wear a fake ring to work just so if the kiddos do find out I can say I'm married. I love the kids I work with and I just want then to have the idea of there teacher doing the right thing. thing is I tutor for 3 hours and were really busy. when times up my manager is usually gone. so I wasn't sure when to tell her either. I have her cell I was thinking of calling or texting. but idk. Hey let's they our work together@ kennedymom?

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mrssabby

🌺Sabrina🌺Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

@kennedymom, if you get benefits just start with that asking when they start, and ask them for information about a medical leave of absence policy, when I started my job at the hospital we were still trying to get pregnant, and as a part of their complete physical and health screen they gave you a pregnancy test, by the time I got pregnant, my benefits had already kicked in, and after my first bed jail sentence I was able to go back and work 1 day which would kick in my STD and LTD, I ended up making it to nov 13, but I'm very high risk with a history of preterm delivery and labor at 29wks, but if they ask just reassure them that you are fine and are willing to work until you go in labor, now as far as coming off of leave you may only get 6wks off and not more cause u just started, but I would start by asking benefit questions

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kennedimom

JasmineВ ожидании первенца

Yea you right...I want to tell them this week sense I'll be 29 weeks Thursday I just don't know how to even begin the conversation lol @mrssabby

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mrssabby

🌺Sabrina🌺Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

@kennedymom, well I mean all you can do is be honest, unless you have complications you should be good to work up until your due date, so I mean I would just tell them cause the scrubs gonna show it all, mine did especially the shirts with the scrunchie in the back

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kennedimom

JasmineВ ожидании первенца

I work for a plasma center @mrssabby and yea you right @krb0911

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krb0911

Kimmie

I think the longer you wait the harder it will be and if she asked why you didn't say I would honest. look I needed a job and I hope you understand.

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mrssabby

🌺Sabrina🌺Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

Where do you work?@kennedymom it depends on the company because if it's an at will company they can let you go at anytime and there's nothing you can do about it, especially if you signed the at will release

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kennedimom

JasmineВ ожидании первенца

That's what everybody saying that they can't do nothing sense I'm already hired but I just don't want them to feel blind sided @krb0911

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krb0911

Kimmie

I would just,be blunt and tell your manager look I need to talk to you. I am pregnant and I just wanted to let u know. You already work there so what can she do lol

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