I have an issue with wanting sex. my sex drive went down the drain once I got pregnant and I know my boyfriend gets irritated by it but he never says much

@stlgrl22, well try it but don't hurt yourself men say pregnancy sex is the greatest because everything is swollen and and all the extra filled blood vessels, and it just feels great to them, I salute all of us pregnant ladies cause honey if the shoe were on the other foot, girlllll they couldn't handle it lol

@rachelmariecroxton, he drives me nuts some times... I have to keep a pillow between us at times because he is always wanting it. His sex drive is very high. I think it's bc he is still some what young but holy cow lol

@stlgrl22, mine practically begs too. and our sex was fine, until I got pregnant... my sex drive went down from 100, to -100000 in like a week... he tries allot, and I get pissy because it irritates me.. I think stress might have something to do with it too, not just pregnancy... but idunno..

@mrssabby, pure romance has a numbing lube I thought about trying. my consultant said it worked like a charm for her during pregnancy. @rachelmariecroxton when he and I first got together over 2 years ago that's how we were. then after about a year just slowed down alot.. we had to have fun with it, now that I'm pregnant it's like he begs for it. I just don't have the drive for it. he gets upset at times.

it hurts me, and the baby doesn't like it. used to we would have sex every night, sometimes multiple times a day.. now, I can rarely ever get aroused. we even bought lube but it still hurts. I have really no desire for sex, but when I do, it hurts my uterus, and I get cramps afterwards and am really nauseous. Baby kicked allot last time, lol as if it was trying to get the sausage out of it's ear. lmao

@stlgrl22, lol Vaseline use Vaseline forget all the fancy stuff, lol I was having sex everyday until I got put in bed jail, and my hubby is so understanding he says lil stuff like it's okay cause you and the baby comes first, sureeeee, he's a man they always want it, not a fan of being a headmaster but hey he don't ask but I just do it, just because I know he misses it, as far a position I loved to be on top but I have a pinched nerve in my leg, spooning and doggy style is nice, with a pillow under your belly in either position

That's horrible!! Lol you're a good gf!

@tgeezy, I normally just let him get off then we stop. when I was having orgasms I would have bad contractions after so now it's all about him... or well trying to be that way lol

It has a few times for me.. During orgasm your cervix is super sensitive and can get damaged :( sucks

Haha, taking a two mile walk didn't even induce labor last yet

@laura_love, I fully agree...that shit hurts bad. I made me stop and finish him self then went and soaked in the tub for a bit. looks like we aren't using that method to induce labor lol

I've thought the same thing. I think mine's just gone from where it hurts to do it. Feels like sandpaper >_< (sorry, that was probably TMI) @stlgrl22

@alicia91, @laura_love even before I was pregnant I didn't have a high sex drive but he still got it we just used stuff to help and make it interesting. I know he wouldn't but there's times I wonder if he would look in other places for it (pregnancy hormones) lol

@stlgrl22, I feel bad about not giving my partner what he wants too /: I miss my sex drive 😤 haha

Yeah I'm good on that.. I have a pure romance consultant who sold me some stuff oral gell to help with that and it make me sick with and with out it lol worst ever. I puked all over him and our bed 😂

@stlgrl22 Awe :( well you could always just go down on him lol they don't seem to mind that alternative

we have tired a few different ones but nothing works. I feel so bad bc I can't give him what he wants :( @alicia91 @febuarybaby

Yes it does! Like she said though, maybe try spooning position, I have found that way to be the most comfortable.

yes!! omg. I did for awhile. try different position and have him fore play longer.. see if it helps. it's completely normal too due to being pregnant everything swells..