We're still together things have just been really tough lately. I can't wait until he actually acts like a dad and hopefully he would rather be home with his child and little family than with his friends drinking.
I hope it gets better.. pregnancy is so hard on us women but its hard on the dads too! at least my SO has been so stressed. over the moon excited, but stressed about money, insurance, my health, the birth, providing for his family etc. and we def struggled the first few weeks to month after we got the BFP. I hope it does get better but if not and you do decide you would be better off without, dont stay just because of the financial part of it. it will be hard but you can do it! there is tons of assistance you can get and if you have family close just try to lean on them when you need! just do what it takes for you to be happy!! happy mommy= happy healthy baby! wishing you well!
ppl always say "a woman becomes a mother when she finds out she is pregnant; a man becomes a father when he holds his baby" maybe he is having a hard time visualizing it or bonding with your bean since he cant feel it the way we can
@or ayingforpink.ftm44, I really think that is his problem. Things are all better now. I can't wait for my next appointment on the 17th and hopefully we get to see the baby and it'll be his first time hearing the heartbeat
mommy_2_journieΒ·
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There is absolutely nothing Wrong with being a single mommy. I will pray for your relationship though hoping it all works out for you @kate_magalina
KatelynΒ·
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I just don't know how I'll be able to afford doing it all by myself. ):
AbigailΒ·
Im here if you wanna talk hun! As of now i'm gonna be a single mama unless the dad randomly decides to be involved...
KatelynΒ·
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We're still together things have just been really tough lately. I can't wait until he actually acts like a dad and hopefully he would rather be home with his child and little family than with his friends drinking.
prayingforpink.ftm44Β·
I hope it gets better.. pregnancy is so hard on us women but its hard on the dads too! at least my SO has been so stressed. over the moon excited, but stressed about money, insurance, my health, the birth, providing for his family etc. and we def struggled the first few weeks to month after we got the BFP. I hope it does get better but if not and you do decide you would be better off without, dont stay just because of the financial part of it. it will be hard but you can do it! there is tons of assistance you can get and if you have family close just try to lean on them when you need! just do what it takes for you to be happy!! happy mommy= happy healthy baby! wishing you well!
prayingforpink.ftm44Β·
ppl always say "a woman becomes a mother when she finds out she is pregnant; a man becomes a father when he holds his baby" maybe he is having a hard time visualizing it or bonding with your bean since he cant feel it the way we can
KatelynΒ·
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@or ayingforpink.ftm44, I really think that is his problem. Things are all better now. I can't wait for my next appointment on the 17th and hopefully we get to see the baby and it'll be his first time hearing the heartbeat