I am not doing this alone and I still don't know if I can do it. But the main thing hon is that you keep trying. That's what makes a good mother. Once you've made a mistake the only thing you can do is learn from it. And I guarantee it that if you love this baby and you want to do it... That you can do an amazing job. as for the sadness, listen to sad songs... Cry your eyes out... Don't hold anything in. Find someone to talk to, whether it's family, physiologist, friend... Or writing it down on a piece paper! Or even here! Just get your feelings out! Also go out and do something you know will cheer you up... Get your hair done, do something just for you! And force yourself to go out when you have the oppurtunity! For me I when I went grocery shopping I spent a lot of time just looking at baby clothes and stuff and it made me happy, also music has always been very therapeutic. I hope your mood lifts! And if you really don't think you can do this.. Talk to someone about adoption? You have options. You just need to make the right choice for you and your baby. Every choice will have its ups and downs. Again I hope you start feeling a climb up in your mood

I went thru this phase. Trust me it's just a phase! You will get and feel better. Not saying you won't get sad but that deep depression stage will pass.

hope is all you need and just like you said were here for you and remember there is always a light at the end of the tunnel stay strong hunny

thankyou @ekks.mamma @jellybeansmommie hopefully I can cheer up soon. it seems impossible. but I'm hopeful anyways..

It is definitely possible. If it wasn't there wouldn't be a million mamas who did it before you. and you always have help its just not who you expected.

nobody is perfect hunny I have messed up alot in my life but I know that I can be a good mom and so can you

@ekks.mamma, its impossible to believe in myself when I've messed so much up.

hunny you have to believe in your self I know its hard to see but you can do it..that baby is going to love you more then anything in the world..

@jellybeansmommie, I don't know how I'm supposed to do it alone.

ik how you feel. i used to just cry all day. i promise it'll get better though. just pray and know you're about to get the best gift ever

I don't think it honestly will get better @lopez.22 its only gotten worse since I found out I was pregnant.

aww sweetie everything will get better we all get emotional and feel like we caint handle things but just pray and have faith !