need advice....so I have a bathroom in my room so I don't go out much...but my ma and my little sister are always in the living room which is fine cause I only watch how to get away with murder and the walking dead. so my ma said Sunday will be a clean up day since thanksgiving is thursday .....Sunday came nobody cleaned except me I cleaned(nested) my room again then she go well we will clean tomorrow(Monday) nobody cleans and she said well we will do it Tuesday and I mean it she told my sister not to go outside and everything so today I'm waiting for everybody to start cleaning because I didn't make any mess that's outside the room I even wash my dishes out and I finally say so aint nobody going to clean and my mama say why don't you start cleaning...you keep telling everybody else to......I'm looking at her like she crazy and say I'm not the one that made this mess her and my sister got all kind on empty cans on the table etc. its trifling and she say I don't make some of yaw mess and I have to clean it I pointed out every dirty thing that I could see and said you and taniya(lil sis) did all that......I used to clean there mess everyday but they just keep on messing up and my ma don't know how to tell lil sis to clean up.....my sis is so nasty and on top of that she getting sick and I told her and ma that if she sick when I have baby she not touching him.....and now I'm all kinds of means and evil....its not my fault I got tired of cleaning their trifling mess....she know I keep to myself but she still feel that I am obligated to clean her mess...no I clean my mess and my child's mess that's it am I wrong for being like this? I just don't think its fair she tells me to clean even though I'm about to pop but she let sis sit around trying to be her friend instead of her parent.......
that seems to be the problem now.....my ma know I'm not with the bs but with me being pregnant she feel she can try to control me.....her and my sis just sit on the couch and sis always eating something and not throwing her trash away.....I don't know how to tell them in a nice way cause it pisses me off that I have to repeat myself for them to clean for a girl that should me natural
I DONT FEEL THAT YOUR WRONG IM THE SAME WAY I STAY IN MY ROOM I HAVE MY OWN BATHROOM MY OWN MINI FRIDGE WITH A MICROWAVE SO I LITERALLY HARDLY EVER COME OUT. I DONT MIND HELPING MY MIL BUT I JUST REALLY GOT PISSED SHE CAME AND ASKED ME TO CLEAN THE DINING ROOM AND LIVING ROOM BBUUTTT MY SIL BEEN HERE ALL DAY AND AINT DID SHIT LIKE USUAL I FEEL ITS BULL SHIT IM BIG PREGNANT AND TIRED AND MY BACK AND MY VAG HURT I FEEL HER BIG NASTY TRIFLING ASS NEED TO GET UP AND CLEAN BUT NNNOO SHE SLEEPING.
@buckbaby15, yes its crazy like my ma been pregnant 7 times you would think she would understand......when she was pregnant I did everything for her I don't ask for nun just that they clean up for the holidays