I cry everyday. I'm so stressed Idk what to do. you ever been torn between your family and the one…

first of all, I am sorry for all downs you are facing... but remember, hormones can our worst enemies, I suggest you to keep low profile, and think only about the well being of your babies, the world can wait, focus on your self (you can't solve everyone issues when first you need to take good care of yourself).

it's not my hormones. kinda hard to keep a low profile when he lives in the same house as me and my sister comes over pretty often. I'm stuck in the middle of a bad situation with my boyfriend and my family @efrat

@kaymariah, I hope you fond a solution, and thinks can be solved asap

only solution I see is if he apologize to her for what he did and actually mean it but that's not happening so I don't think it will ever get solved which still leaves me in a sticky situation @efrat

If he isn't willing to apologize and won't mean it, then there is no sense in making him because its an empty apology therefore nothing will be solved. I suggest you sit them both down and tell them both to grow up and stop acting like babies, when you have much bigger things to be worrying about then an argument that won't matter in a year from now. From what you've said on here you and your man have had a pretty solid relationship, instead of looking at this "bad" thing he has done look at all the good he has done, such as giving you your little bundle of joy, it sucks but sometimes you've gotta let things go even when you feel like you shouldn't. Family is forever and he is your family. Maybe he is feeling a little stressed and lashed out at her out of built up stress, bringing anew baby in the world is just as stressful for men as it is women, you could try and talk to him and ask him how he's dealing with it all, maybe then he'll feel like he can apologize.

she didn't do anything to him so I'm not gonna tell her she acting like a baby when it's him he started shit with her for no reason and it wasn't right. it wasn't just an argument it was a fist fight. family is forever which is her and my mom he isn't blood. my family will always be there for me. my family took him in when he was homeless. without my family he would have nothing so I'm pretty pissed about this. he shouldn't have did it period no matter what he going thru. I have forgiven a lot from him this time is worse than others @macy2015

Well if it was a physical altercation and he hit her, then don't be with him. You say your sister and mom are family and he isn't then its best to leave him, no man should put their hands on a woman. Point is if he is going to put his hands on your sister then you shouldn't have the negativity around your baby or you.

I mean they are my blood family and always gonna b there for me. boyfriends aren't forever but he is my family too because I'm pregnant I'm just saying he isn't blood it's just hard when I feel like u have to choose. I still Love him very much and I think we can work thru anything I just don't know exactly what I really wanna do. we had a conversation today and it got heated he stomped and broke his radio. he packed his stuff and called his mom to get him so he left Idk what's gonna happen between us when he comes back @macy2015

Idk your faith preference but I'd just pray about it, seems like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place.. I'm really sorry this is going on this time especially when you need support and all. I pray everything goes well and things cool down.

Thanks I hope it gets better soon @macy2015