Hey all.... So as some of you know I've been having a hard time with my sister. She's barely been in my life since my pregnancy and has been VERY unenthusiastic about the baby. My two best friends have been planning my baby shower pretty much since the minute I told them I'm pregnant. I just told my sister they will be the ones throwing it and she's freaking out.. But I don't know why I would have the person that literally told me I should get an abortion throw my baby shower. What would you all do?
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She has no right to be angry. First of all no one really asks anyone to throw them a baby shower so if she wanted to throw u one she should have said something. Secondly she was rude and mean to you so she can't seriously expect u to have been comfortable with talking about anything pregnancy related with her. I think you should just be honest and tell her. Oh just say "one doesn't pick their baby shower hosts. People offered, I accepted"
If you feel you want to mend whatever the problem is... Maybe ask your friends if they would be willing to involve her somehow? And if they are okay with it then tell you sister that she can be involved but if she can't be positive and supportive that you can't have her around. Pregnancy is hard... And you need positivity and support. I wish you a whole lot of luck... She sounds a lot like my younger sister who is absolutely nuts!
I agree with @kaity0117 . she has no right to be upset or mad. mainly if she's the one who told you to get an abortion.
Be honest, say you didn't mean to upset her but by her reaction to your pregnancy you didn't want someone who isn't as excited as you to plan a very exciting part of being pregnant!
@alhynele, @kaity0117 @mama_bear thank you all for your advice, it's so tough to deal with this stuff!