so question, whats fair? I was wit a guy who is now my boyfriend early to middle may and had unprotected sex. he pulled out I watched where it went. I felt no sickness and I had a period. but on july 10 I slept wit another who I ddnt know ddnt put a condom on (very inexperienced sexual as u can tell) and I missed my period plus morning sickeness and sore boobs. foind out i was prego. the doc say wit timin and symptoms there almost postive ita the second guys baby. so my moms think all three of us both me and the two guys should pau for the dna test all together. I dont feel the same. of course I want to knw 100 whos child it is but me and my bf have accepted the situation and he has accepted my child as his own reguardless. thw othwr guy is an ass to me and doesnt even so much as ask of im ok or how the baby is doin. why should I help him with somethin he asked for and wants
It sounds like the second guy just get him tested and get child support lol. Shoot At least if he doesn't wanna be there for his child then you'll have some kind of help. @mommy15
If he wants a test he should pay. Also u have to be prepared to tell this baby the truth should this ever come out!
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fair would be all 3 paying for it if all 3 parties are informed of the situation. it sounds like the second guy's the father though. you could also look into if it is something that would be covered at the hospital by insurance when the baby is born since you and your bf aren't married. I've heard sometimes it can be covered that way. if the second guy isnt willing, then likely they could just do a test against your bf's DNA first. if it's not a match then pursue the second guy if you wish to do so.