@flowersssxo, the videos on YouTube are really tough births too.. My friend just sent me her birth video and it looked like a breeze. One push and done. Definitely NOT watching anymore online! They're scary!

I'm really nervous to when I think about it or see those videos too haha

it really is ! and yes. even tho some people do experience complications some dont and the doctors always get you thru it regardless. they comfort you a lot actually

@ndesmidt, thank you! :) I imagine every woman is nervous about it, it's amazing what our bodies are capable of. It's just good to hear from ladies who have been through it and don't have all negative things to say!

i got an epidural with my first when i was dilated to an 8...with my second i got one but had an allergic reaction and it wore off and i felt my son come out...both my kids were 9lbs and im tiny so yeah. no stitches or nothing. with this next one i get no epidural at all due to the allergic reaction. you will be fine. everyone is nervous going in labor you just think positive and the outcome is so worth it !!

@ndesmidt, did you use epidural? The birth itself is the part that really scares me!

When you are with those contractions and in pain all you will think about is pushing that baby out lol trust me

i had two very easy labors !