Stressed like no other smh! There's no way I should feel the way I feel! I HATE my baby's father! On my brothers grave…

@mrssabby, trying my best!

@kori_mommy, praying for ya honey it will get better trust me it will work out and when it does it will work out great for you and baby just keep your hands up 🙏

Thanks! @sexii_diiva

yes.. that's a lot of baby mamas.. but God won't give you anything you can't handle.. good luck to you && your situation girl!

wow smh yea I should have listened to my mom when she said he wasn't right for me cause she was right smh... @sexii_diiva the 2 kids are his & he's suplosedly raising the step child (just to get the check) & now I'm pregnant & there's another female pregnant after me..None of his kids have the same mother smh this is sad cause I should have known, but what can I do now.. I'm just hurt cause I do care for him because he is the father of my child, but shit give me a break & just go about ya way & be a father to my daughter..All this other drama I don't need!! I just want peace & sleep in my house & can Never get it smh Sad!!

oo so all 3 kids live with him? girl that's crazy.. but girl that's why I once I got older I started seeing how dudes act with kids && stuff before I go that far because things happen by mistake all the time && you don't wanna deal with that bum dude. not to say that's your situation but girl these dudes crazy... this one lady was married. got a divorce && had a new man.. && ex was jealous and it was his weekend with kids. he dressed them up && had them dance then sent pic to mother && drowned the 2 girls

@sexii_diiva, who knows Really smh I know when the school year started they didn't have new clothes, shoes, hair cuts, nothing smh & he gets like 1500 for them like thats triflin as fuck my baby would never walk around looking how they do on my brother she won't! It's just not in me to not do for my baby, she spoiled as hell & she's not even here yet & he hasn't helped me with Anything smh thats sad as fuck!!

does he take care of the other 3?

@mrssabby, trying to figure out whether I wana go to my moms until this other apartment call me back just a hassle to have to move twice smh, trying to be out of my apartment by the end of this weekend!!

@kori_mommy yeah I agree with @sexii_diiva some people are money hungry, wish I was there to help, do you have anywhere to go and maybe stay awhile, I'm sorry your going through all of this

Yea ur right @sexii_diiva & they are money hungry & been from day one, but I trusted them being as though we attend the same church smh. & they can feel how they feel or have whatever opinion they do I know I just want my daughter to be safe & taken care of, but will he step up..I think Not! I'm not a slouch & never been one, like I don't Need this dude for shit, but to be a Father!! I'm not bitter nor mad, just respect me enough to be quiet & allow me to be at my home & sleep comfortably smh I Always have to leave my home & go stay at my mom's or somewhere Just To Get Sleep!! Why should I have to leave my home to get sleep or peace When I'm Paying My Bills On Time Every Month smh it's Not fair at all!!

@kori_mommy they probably just want the money && that's not a good enough reason probably.. because if their reason isn't valid they can get sued -&& on top of that it may seem like you a bitter baby mama && just want him out to them. its tricky because all y'all know each other ya know..

Oh but I forgot I'm supposed to stay calm because I'm pregnant right smfh @mrssabby @sexii_diiva Not working at all this is Really taking a toll on me, idk what else to do I've done nothing wrong & I'm treated this way!! I went have anything else to say to my Pastor or her husband after I move because this is ridiculous smh I don't even wanna attend the church anymore because I feel this way! Heartbreaking smh

@mrssabby, @sexii_diiva On top if all of that the bitch hes with now is pregnant due February I'm due January..Nice right!? I've been trying to keep him involved with everything & he shows no interest smh. He wouldn't go take a blood test to see if my daughter could potentially be born with Sickle Cell, it runs in my family & my screening was positive for the trait. He refused to take the test, he wouldn't even show up to my baby shower to support our daughter because his other kids mother didn't want him to smh like the nerve of a female to be so ratchet & try to keep my daughter's father away from her because she's mad smfh! I'm at my wits end with this Shit I just wana get away from there, change my number & file for full custody! He's a drug dealer, an alcoholic & I feel like he's a pill popper smh & does Nothing for my baby, his other kids are in CYF & he gets a check for them & Still does Nothing smh I'm beyond Done!!!!!! I don't want my baby anywhere around him, the judge will have to send me to jail before I let my baby go around him smh Long road ahead of me.. Sad right!

@kori_mommy ooo. I understand.. sorry to hear that!!!

@kori_mommy, I'm so sorry you gotta go through all of that, yeah you don't need that stress and the baby doesn't either, I will be praying for you my friend, I still don't understand why the pastor won't make him move though, uhhh I just wouldn't talk to none of them no more less stress for you

The Noise, the Funky Smells coming from his apt. the Stomping, Slamming Doors, the Dog Barking, the Partying etc.. @sexii_diiva

@mrssabby, I made the decision to try to move because I feel like I'm going to go into early labor because of all this bullshit smh, it's not fair to me or my daughter like I did Nothing wrong, but lay down with the Wrong dude & got pregnant! I don't regret my daughter, but I wish her father was someone else! Smh I'm stressed & I need out of this shit!

what do you complain to them about? what is he doing ? && why do you have to leave?

He lives in the apartment downstairs from me with his 3 other kids & an annoying ass dog smh! My Pastor and her husband are my landlords & we go to the same church, I call & complain to them all the time & nothing gets done & I pay my rent on time Every month, my apartment is Always clean & I'm the one stressed & has to leave smfh @sexii_diiva My baby's father & I don't get along he does Nothing for my daughter & is childish & mad cause I'm not a low life who will lay up under him & pretend that I'm happy while, take care of my home and his and his kids while he lays up with other women, I Don't deserve this shit & this is my first child I'm just so overwhelmed, hurt & stressed!! I shouldn't have to feel this way & he gets to be happy & fuck who he wants! I'm the mother of his first daughter & he doesn't respect me smfh I'm over it!!

He live downstairs in a seperate unit? Why do you have to move?

your baby daddy lives with you && you hate him? I'm lost! && why do you feel betrayed about the pastor? I didn't get it ..sorry 😑