Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
So update on my life...A month ago my husband left me with nothing at all and left me for another girl, I start my new job tomorrow and I have to get caught up on everything that my husband left behind to fall back on me..So moving on I had went out of town with a friend of mine (technically he's my ex but we been friends for 13 years) I went out of town with him, his brother, and his sister and we went to the Red River Gorge for about a week, and my ex was sending me mixed signals and still is because he is living with me now, well we come home to my house being destroyed and my husbands things gone which the police already said they seen him at my house but couldn't do anything legally because he was on the lease.. well now I think I could be pregnant with my ex. Im suppose to start my period tomorrow and im a nervous wreck because he has made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship so my question is if I am pregnant how do i go about telling him??
Honest opinion am I overreacting....so my mother in law and sister in law didn't call my son on his birthday on Wednesday. Yet they knew it was his 2nd birthday. I was so upset and hurt because we've lived with them so I considered them like my actual family. My mom threw a surprise party for my son that night it was literally only my sister,brother,mom and aunt and one of my friends and of course us. Well my mom decided to go fb live with us singing happy birthday. My mother in law comments that why didn't we tell her anything so I tell my mom if she really cared she would've called him to say something.Even family members that I don't talk to often messaged him a video singing to him! So the next day I receive a message from my sister in law asking me why I didn't invite them. I then explained that either of them called to tell him anything. So then she was like well you could've still invited us and then I explained that it wasn't my right to do anything since it was my brother sister and mother throwing it for him! So then I told her that they were more than welcome to throw him anything if they truly wanted to needles to say they were mad because they weren't invited to my son's surprise party. And I apparently should've told them to call my son super frustrating. Well I'm so glad my family loves my son and spoils him they do everything for him so I am truly blessed. Just gets me upset because birthdays are a big deal in my family.
Kee Kee·
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maybe there is a deeper reason you are unaware of that maybe the reason they don't want him to know. I cant imagine them just not wanting him to know about his uncle passing. @buckbaby15
Kee Kee·
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after he finds out I would let him know about the threats that were tossed around if you told him. but I'm my opinion it was uncalled for.
missing5user·
Maybe it's understanding why they don't want to tell him but to threaten you & say they're going to beat you up? Like really
🌺Sabrina🌺·
Well when it comes to telling a prisoner bad news it can go one or two ways, either they can handle it well or they will flip out and be in the hole, so you have to be careful when telling him especially if they were close, as far as the threats yeah that's unsafe and I would let him know that they threatened you and baby cause that's not cool
Lala·
That's a bunch of drama and nonsense you don't need! It might be best for you to move back home honey where you have support and family! That's a no go for me I couldn't handle that😕 Saying a prayer for you right now 😘
Malika·
@naadira, THERES NO REASON THEY CAN TELL HIM ALL THE DRAMA AND BULLSHIT GOING ON BUT CANT TELL HIM ABOUT HIS FAMILY AND THAT'S GOING TO BE THE FIRST THING I TELL HIM
Malika·
@flowersssxo, TO ME THERES NO REASON FOR IT THEY CAN TELL HIM ALL THE DRAMA THAT GOES ON BUT CANT TELL HIM THAT ITS BULL TO ME
Malika·
@mrssabby, AND THAT IS TRUE BUT ITS NOT LIKE HE DIDNT KNOW ANYDAY THAT HE WAS GONE PASS SO I FEEL HE NOT GO FLIP OUT AS THEY KEEP SAYING I KNOW HIM HE GONE FLIP OUT MORE WHEN HE FIND OUT CAUSE THAT'S KEEPING A SECRET FROM HIM ABOUT SOMETHING HE KNOW IS GOING ON AND THATS HIS UNCLE
🌺Sabrina🌺·
@buckbaby15, I would just tell and move back home and tell him all of it how they threatened you to especially his sister
Malika·
@babyboolala, YE I REALLY THINK IT IS BEST FOR ME TO GO CAUSE ITS ALWAYS ME EVERY TIME YOU TURN AROUND EITHER ITS I GOT A ATTITUDE OR I DID SOMETHING ITS REALLY TO MUCH
Lala·
If they're trying to control you it's definitely time to go! Let them be bitter and miserable without using you as an excuse! I say take your baby and move along! Why stay there and be miserable and mistreated! 😕 No ma'am, go be happy and enjoy your baby this is your pregnancy and you deserve to be happy regardless of the circumstances! & I would let him know what's going on with them when the time is right! You can still be faithful to Him in love and not have to put up with his family! Because their behavior is #Unacceptable @buckbaby15
Rachael·
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girl fuck em tell your man he will be more mad if you don't tell him its messed up they wanna hide it. same thing happened to me my grandfather finds out he o my has a few months to live said for me not to tell my father his son cause they don't get along. but I did anyway cause that's his dad ya know I didnt care if people did get mad at least I knew in my heart I did the right thing. tell your man you'll know u did the right thing. and i wish that family member would try to beat your ass you could throw their ass in jail for attempt of murder cause of how far along u are. all my thinking is on the beat your ass subject is I wish a bitch would try to be so damn stupid.. anyway I'm done rantin girl
Malika·
@rachaelbutsch, YE IM GOING TO TELL HIM IVE NEVER LIED TO HIM OR KEPT SECRETS AND I KNOW MY MAN HE GONE BE LIKE DAMN YOU KEPT THAT A SECRET WHAT ELSE YOU HIDING AND I DONT NEED THEM PROBLEMS WE ARE TRYING TO GET OUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER AND STRONGER THAT WILL JUST MAKE HIM LOOK AT ME FUNNY I CARE MORE ABOUT HIS FEELINGS THAN THAT. THEN HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO COME HOME AND ENJOY HIS NEWBORN NOT BE HAPPY THEN FIND OUT OH YE YOUR UNCLED DIED 18 MONTHS AGO LIKE WTF
Malika·
@rachaelbutsch, AND AS FAR AS ANYONE PUTTING THEIR HANDS ON ME LOL THIS BITCHES REALLY DONT KNOW ME I WILL BE THE ONE IN JAIL NOT HER
Malika·
THESE*
Rachael·
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haha girl we got the same kinda mind o don't even know you but I will beat a bitch who is stupid enough to put their hands on a pregnant woman that shit just makes me mad AF
Malika·
@rachaelbutsch, I JUST HAVE TO REALIZE THAT HOW I WAS RAISED AND HOW MY MIND OPERATES IS NOT LIKE EVERYONE ELSE AND THESE BITCHES AINT THAT CRAZY THEY DONT WANT HIM TO KNOW BUT SOME SHIT GO DOWN HE GONE FIND OUT QUICKER DDUUHH IM SO HAPPY I WAS RAISED AND IM SMART LOL
Rachael·
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haha true I wish everyone was raised with morals but you know how the world is now morals self respect manners and respect for others don't exisit anymore. and its sad you sound like a good woman who cares about other people feelings