@single_ladi,

omg, that's messed up. I'm sorry but I dont date men with children just for that reason.

@rios89, his kids were lying on me saying that I didn't like them... I'll post the pic explaining what happend.

@mrs.aceves, I did that the day I found out. it was sent on the computer Nov Oct 14 2014.

thank you @babyboolala

I'm so sorry @single_ladi why did he leave?

@rios89, i understand how u feel. I've been living with the pain if my husband leaving for 7 months now and I'm 7 months. It gets easier sometimes but at night it is painful. I try to stay focused on my kids. My prayers are with you and hopefully one day we can get a full night of sleep.

Smh... I'll keep praying babygirl and I'll tell you from experience firsthand, when you know he's lying and you go snooping or searching for something else you're going to end up with your feelings hurt! If he was happy to let it go you need to let it go without adding to your pain by finding things that will tell you what you already know and what he refuses to be honest about! My past relationship taught me a lot and I'm so thankful that I don't have any of those thoughts or worries in this relationship! Hope this gets better without u being hurt n e further. @rios89

also I would check when he added the picture to the recycling bin. that way if it was recently you KNOW hes lieing to you trying to cover something up

guys usually will never admit anything. regardless if they are caught or not. I think you guys owe more to your children then to break up over a picture on the computer hes obviously not admitting to. I would go on the picture, right click on it & see when it was taken & at what time. that way you can think back to that date & time & see if you remember anything fishy going on.

him not saying anything is just making me go crazy. and when I told him that it was over he didn't try to fight for our relationship he just let it go

@mrs.aceves, @babyboolala

yes I'm very use to him. he had a picture of him self with his shirt off on the computer in the Recycling bin. I ask him about it and he said he doesn't know what I'm talking about. then I showed him the picture And all he had to say is he doesn't know how it got on there. I dont like to be lied to and if he wanted to cheat or do what ever he wants to do with his picture then he should of did it after I have the baby or tell me he doesn't want to be with me. I found it a week ago and he's still telling me he didn't do anything wrong and that I'm tripping over nothing.

I love him with every bone in my body and I want us to work things out but he isn't helping by not saying anything about the stupid picture

@rios89,

Aww Don't Cry boo, it'll get better soon you will see!

5 years is a long time! And I'm sure you're very used to him, however you have to move on especially if he's moved on! It absolutely will not be easy! But it is possible and you already have no other choice since he decided to walk out. So now you have to make the best of it and find a way to be happy for yourself and your children and if he comes back around and you decide to deal with him, cross that bridge when you get there until then you need to focus on now and the baby in your belly! You're a strong mama I can tell I know you can do this ! Take it one day at a time and if that's too much take it one moment at a time!

why would you guys break up after so long?? I would not be able to stop thinking about my husband & weve been together for 5 years too with 2 kids & another on the way. I would try my hardest to make things work. is everything totally unfixable?

Nov 21 would of been 5 years 😭😢💔 I try not to think about him but that's all that pops in my head! its easier said then done

thanks ladies

@babyboolala

@mrs.aceves

@18andpregnant

@rios89,

try not to think of it too much love. stress isnt good for you or baby. hopefully yall can work things out. im praying for you♡

Focus on baby and ANYTHING positive and prayer!!!! Or ur going to stress u and baby out! Hard? Yes! Painful? Absolutely! Impossible, forever, life ending? NO!!!!! This too shall pass! The sun always shines after the rain! Joy surely comes in the morning! 😘😘😘😘 praying for u RIGHT NOW!

I'll love you😢