So its been two years since my dad died. My moms been seeing this guy for about a year, she told me today that they're going to look at engagement rings tomorrow. I dont know if its the hormones but I cant stop crying. I want her to be happy, I really really do, I'm fine with seeing them together. But for some reason the thought of her married to someone else really upsets me. I miss my dad like crazy and she acts like he never existed. I know that's selfish of me though. Hormones aren't making it any easier either. :(
@kaity0117, I wish she would do that but she literally acts like he didnt exist. She moved in with her boyfriend, left me to take care of the house and her two dogs. She wants my son to call her boyfriend grandpa. Its just a stupid situation. :/
You know I think if you tallked to your mom it might help. Just let her know that your happy for her but maybe your worried that your dad is being left behind? Maybe ask to go out for a dinner celebration the two of you in your dads honour! Just a suggestion :)
Aww I know that's rough especially seemingly she moved on so fast just try and have a conversation with her and see if she can put your mind on ease.
Awe I'm sorry about your loss I understand your heartache. hope everything gets better.
aww.. it will be okay.. but it is kinda soon so I understand... your dad passed away && a year later she found someone else. it does seem so soon.. but everything will work out for all of you
Well I understand why you are feeling the way you do. But have you spoken to her about how you are feeling? Really my whole life changed when I stopped saying what people wanted to hear and said what I was actually thinking and expressed my feelings and frustrations