I hate feeling like I can't do anything. I am super independent, I usually am the one to mow the lawn, rake the leaves and shovel the driveway. I enjoy doing it most of the time and this pregnancy has made it freaking hard for me. I know my husband hates doing that kind of stuff and I totally understand and usually do it but I hate relying on him to do it now that I am pregnant. I feel so damn bad all the time cause I feel like he has to do it all. I was outside getting some of the leaves raked and my dad called and when I told him what I was doing he told me to go lay down and relax. my dad has a lot on his plate all the time and I feel like me not doing all this is adding to it and I feel so bad. sorry just had to vent I just feel like crap.
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aww so close i still have 2 months n some days but i already got in bed rest for 2 weeks 2 times just to make sure baby was ok it does get frustrating specially knowing u can do it fast n how u want it but its best for our babys we calm down n do it after they r here lol
@mommy3rmz, I am glad someone understands. I only have 6 weeks till my little man is here and I am going to have to be careful so he doesn't come early. I just get frustrated
im on the same page :( im a hands on person specially if hubby dont like to do it but now i havent done much n i get frustrated :/ soo i know how u feel girl
i know exactly how you feel. i am the do all person in my family as well, and i just cant do anything anymore. i can barely get a laundry basket up the stairs, and my husband works two jobs, so i feel awful asking him to do anything.