what does it mean when someone says they feel connected vs disconnected from their unborn? like what…

what does it mean when someone says they feel connected vs disconnected from their unborn? like what are some signs... This was a planned pregnancy so I'm thrilled && excited && can't wait to see baby but idk if that necessarily means I'm connected. but I don't feel disconnected either. God forbid if something bad happens I would cry my heart out. I have wmotions but I'm just trying to figure out the difference.