My mother in law wants to buy a crib for her house. She already got a swing, highchair, bouncer, walker, stroller and pack and play. 😩 How do I tell her thats not necessary without being rude? I dont really want my son over there that often, they smoke like crazy in the house, they fight all the time, I just...ughhhh! I cant talk to my fiance about it because for some reason he thinks his mommy is perfect.
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@jessielynnlove, i went crazy the first year my son was born.. At first she was like I don't know nothing about babies in too old now (60 years old) so I was happy then she wouldn't be budding in nope when she heard him very she would run and take him away from me.. It was hell and I wouldn't say anything for respect to her.. But now she babies him a lot he's 5 now I yell at her I speak up.. I hate her for living with us.. Imma keep her away from my baby girl..
My mil is like that imagine having her 24/7 at your house yea that's me. She lives with us, and I speak up all the time.. At times I can't stand her.. I tell my man how she is and he be yelling at her..
for my nephew I bought things that just stay at my house, because my sister lets me keep him , and if I am keeping him it won't be less than 2days. but she's okay with that. and I will be when my little one comes. as for hubbys mom, I absolutely adore my mil and because this is the first baby she will get from my husband I know she will want to be around. maybe even come stay with us for a lil cause she does that for all her great grandchildren.
kat tell her is not necessary cause since she has a pack and play when you and the baby sleep thew the baby can just sleep in that tell her don't spend the money save it since the pack and play will work just fine
:P everyone needs some me time. If my mom wasnt like two blocks away, id probably be more enthusiastic about bringing the baby to my mil. Buuuut why drive a half hour when my moms like 5 minutes lol
I dont work right now I leave them for some me time lol
@babygirl10-11, see that makes sense! I dont work, this baby will literally never be over there lol
o that explains it .. my mil has more baby stuff then me but I also leave my baby over there on Mondays and Tuesdays not over night tho
Yeah, I guess its not worth the fight lol its her money shes wasting. :P
dang she got all that like da baby moving in with her lol
that's like my mom wanted to buy a car seat for her car.. && I looked at her like she was crazy but I'm sure my Mom will have my baby a lot to help so I'm not opposed to it but if my husband mom get one I would have not nice thoughts lol but I can't tell his mom anything and not tell my mom.. but that's my mom I trust my mom lol its different. they will never understand so if my husbands mom decided to buy a car seat I wouldn't say a word cuz in reality its not fair but in my head I already know what's gonna happen
idk.. just let her buy it. I mean that's your man's mom so it gets tricky... so if she think the baby gonna be there a lot let her believe that. there is no easy way saying my baby isn't gonna be there often.. there just isn't a nice way at all without upsetting your man or her... forget her . you don't wanna offend your man lol
@kgonza87, I know thats how shes gonna be whenever we go over there.