in need of some advice.
tomorrow is my due date.
my boyfriend is only 21, I'm 24. he seems to not want to grow up, get a better job or even make sure he has money to pay the bills while I'm on maternity leave. he's had 8 months to prepare (found out I was pregnant at five weeks) and he hasn't saved a dime. (I've been covering all the bills and expenses)
he hasn't even spent one penny towards this baby! (My family bought everything for my baby shower)
he doesn't seem like he's going to grow up anytime soon and I'm really sick of it. I don't know what to do or even how to go about it, it's looking like I'd be better off alone.
anyone else go through this?
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You have to do what's best for you & the kids.. if he can't step up to plate then maybe it's best take time apart and let him know your serious otherwise he's never going to change.
Sounds like if u don't separate you'll be raising two kids instead of one. Do what's best for you and your little one.
Aww girl I am in the same exact boat, I am only 17 weeks found out at 4 weeks I was oregnant I am a server at a restaurant so I pay for literally everything. While me being 21 and my man is 23 working at Dairy Queen getting paid only twice a month 300$ pay checks and doesn't want another job or to save money or Anything. I offered to even get a second job and he didn't say anything about it also I asked him for a little bit of money for rent since I can't close anymore I don't make enough as fast as I usually have. It's a very very rough thing to go thro girl And I am terribly sorry we had to go thro tjis
we just got an apartment together a few months back... so he has to remove himself off the lease.
I fear that nothing's going to change. and I can't deal with two babies in the house.
:/
my bd same way ugghh I wish I knew answer too ;/ I jus separated myself from him.. Time waits on nobody.
is it normal that my belly hasn't grown much? I'm 18 weeks and it doesn't seem to want to grow. 1st time mommy
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
???
My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
He's here 😍 he hasn't gotten cleaned up or anything, they don't do it til he is 12 hours old & I'm still not able to move around but he's perfect and I couldn't wait to share
haven't been here personally but I wouldn't be putting up with it. if he can't grow up and be a man and help support you and your child, why should you support him? be strong for yourself and for your baby, you shouldn't have to put up with that. you don't need anybody.