why does everything feel like it's tumbling down .. I should be happy instead of crying majority of…

Well honey what's wrong? 😗

awh im.sorry 😞 im here to talk and sometimes i feel like this too and its so much harder well being pregnnat

it's just relationship issues.. he feels like he lost me since I got pregnant and that he has to work hard to keep me happy. I just feel like why now ? I can't take the crying anymore .. I know we all are pregnant and super emotional but I try to keep him happy too @makeartnotwarr69 @babyboolala @nikki11st

Sometimes you just gotta pretend to be normal! When I realize that I'm driving my husband crazy I slap myself back to normality! Laughing but serious. In all actuality they have no idea what's happening to us and whether they read about it or hear about it from a doctor they will never fully understand that we seriously lose our minds once we become pregnant! And it terrifies them and all they think is that we changed. Is like taking them from a bright sunny beach and sticking them in a cold old shack alone! And expecting them just to survive lol I know that's dramatic but so is this. Its hard but you gotta try doing things you always used to do with him and looking at things from his perspective. My husband is so happy he can barely remember I'm pregnant lol and yes I have my moments I just try to have them privately so I don't bring him down with me. And because I've done so well not driving him crazy when I do have break down he understands and he's a lot more compassionate because he knows I'm trying to just be normal lol whatever that is... It's hard but not impossible. One thing I do know it's a lot harder to repair your relationship after its been very damaged, you want to get in there and fix it early. The Sun shines after the rain honey and joy comes in the morning! 😘😘😘

@godsgift24,

thanks I get what you're saying.. I mean when we are together it's all sunshine but once I go home he starts complaining that he wants me there everyday ... I try my best... then and if I cry alone or handle things alone he doesn't like it . he always wants to be apart of it but he should understand that at times I like my space . I don't like being upset or crying because it affects the baby. believe me we still do things we have already done expect I can't drink anymore and I got tired of being surrounded by that .. he wasn't a party person , but I occasionally liked to go out and dance . dancing is my thing it helps me cope with everything whether it's a chill night just dancing with my girls .. I just want it to be normal we never argued or had discussions like this .. but I'm going to try to explain to him once again that I didn't change @babyboolala

I don't expect him to understand what we go through these 9 months . it isn't happening to him.. we haven't broke up or anything . it's just a little disagreement .. thanks for your words honey . @makeartnotwarr69 and thank you too @babyboolala

yes I get exactly what you're saying.. my boyfriend is a negative thinker, which I knew from the beginning .. when somethings wrong he doesn't see the brighter side that yes it's a disagreement but hey every relationship has them .. @makeartnotwarr69 men are complex lol

I doubt any thing in a relationship isn't fixable besides cheating lol .. but we do have our hands full . we just have to have patience just like they need to with us .. ughh thanks so much you changed my mood ! I appreciate it @makeartnotwarr69

Just try not to stress too much and I'll be praying for you and you pray as well! And things will be just fine! You'll be back to regular woman crazy in no time lol 😘😘

thanks 😙😙 @babyboolala

and yes everything is fixable if the partners are willing to do their part and come to an agreement . thanks love 💓💓 @makeartnotwarr69

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