In my situation right now, I live with my boyfriend and his family. His dad drinks. A lot. and when drinks he stays up to absurd hours of the morning yelling, talking, dancing, fighting with his sons and just about everything else. And in our current position we're probably going to have our baby and probably still have to stay here a while until we move out. My family isn't letting me come back to live in their house with my boyfriend unless we're married (very religious people) and we want to get married but we're not rushing it. I am so flustered and upset right now and I just want to find a solution to all our problems.
Комментарии
You should not be forced into marriage for a safe place to live. Emotional and physical safety are so important AT ALL AGES! I'm sorry and I'm sure this is pretty common but religious or not you both need a safe place for you and your baby. Start looking into other options. Other family members. Jobs, anything! Good luck I hope things work out. Don't get married because you have to. Pls. That's what my parents did and I can't even describe the level of hate between them.
Hmmm I understand your parents have their own house and they are adults and they hold their own position! However I still think it's very unfair and ungodly, religious or not to make you have that kind of decision. If premarital sex was the issue.. the damage is already done so to speak, you're already pregnant. I'll be praying for you in this situation and for your parents! And for you for the people that you're living with. I think it might be time to have a heart to heart with Mom or Dad whoever is open to listen to you! Start with asking them to pray with you and finding out what God expects all of you to do in this situation for baby. You can't go wrong by depending on God with parents who say they love him! 😘😘😘