Her helmet she got so she can be safe (as she told me) when she rides her bike and scooter lol
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.
My beautiful little girl went to be with God, her baby sister, and her uncle yesterday morning! I wish so badly that she was still here with me. She was my best friend and my rock. My beautiful sweet baby! My heart went with her! I will never stop missing you my beAutiful Hannah Nicole! Moms always trust your gut feeling and NEVER believe a doctor when they try to change your mind. My baby would still be here with me if the doctors just listened. She went to have a pik line put in which is like a simple IV but bigger. It involves anesthesia to be put in. Well I been begging the doctors to let her see a lung specialist for a week now! They kept saying no it's not her lungs it's her heart! Well they knew she was sick with a cold...I told them I felt it was more than that....they didn't listen and when they sedated her for the procedure they couldn't ventilate her lungs because she had phnemonia!!!!! And since they could only get one ventilated and not the other she's gone!!!! All because they did not listen to me!!!! Y'all she was perfectly fine before she went back!!! The killed her!!!!! And I feel like maybe I should have fought harder!!!!!!!!!! I knew it yalllll!!!!!!!!! I told them!!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Taylor·
and you'll do just fine with out them love!@melissa_182
brittneilynn21·
I hear you. I recently cut ties with all extended family. it wasn't easy but I'm very happy to be off of that emotional rollercoaster. All I have is my husband and son as well. They will be the only ones at my birth for certain as well. :) be encouraged. xo
melissa_182·
@brooklynnbby, @brittneilynn21, Thanks, it's been hard but I've realized I'm better off without them even though it hurts. My first pregnancy & having to go through it alone & not knowing anything is hard.
brittneilynn21·
yea. I have learned a lot about birth and pregnancy since my last birth. since we aren't doing things the conventional way I'm very thankful not to have to deal with the negative comments from concern and lack of knowledge. I'm sure it will get easier as time passes.
Taylor·
We're here for you though remember you're not completely alone I know we're not the same as having family but we're something(: @melissa_182