How do you guys feel about step children being in your maternity shoot?
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@avamom cuz she isn't my child. and it just is weird to me... but family pics after the baby is fine to me. idk why I feel that way. just how I feel
Well I feel it depends on how close you are with the child.. Honestly because if this was your second child and not your step child wouldn't you want them in the pic?
@nayassa77 we will be the end of this week.. but she is only 5 && I don't think she even understand to be honest. by me not showing I can barely explain to her but he was cool with me not wanting his daughter in the pics. we can take pics after baby is born
well if your married i feel like its definitley should make a compromise.... you dont want the baby to feel left out shes probably just as excited..... i think if you do decide to have her in them you will be very happy
@christineann yea I see what you saying... never thought of it that way. but I mean I feel my step daughter has her own mother as well. she is the only child so I'm gonna make sure she doesn't feel not included but her mama be tripping anyway. but I would never do things like buy my child stuff in front of her and don't buy her anything.. if she is there I'll buy both kids candy. I'm not that evil
@firefly, @sexii_diiva I guess how I see it is this will be a sibling to my stepdaughter and she's an only child otherwise. I come from a family where there's my brother & I then my dad married a woman with 2 sons (so our stepbrothers) and my dad had a daughter with her (so my sister and my best friend in the world). I can tell you as an adult I feel resentment to this day over "family photos" my brother & I were left out of. May be some fuel for my feelings too.
@dec7saggirl yea... @firefly well I did compromise. I told him his I dont feel comfortable with the maternity shoot but when the baby is born we can take family pics. that was my compromise and he was fine with it
@sexii_diiva, yea I mean I can see where you are coming from, just really depends on personal feelings & your family dynamic. I can tell you she wouldn't be kissing my stomach, we barely hug, but just a photo with her sitting with me & my kids, a full family shot with me..like that.
@christineann I agree with you, you are a family now. With your husband's kids and your own you shouldn't let them feel lefted out. Do some with and some out if your husband wants some with his other children as well you should compromise.
no i agree totally with what your saying thats why its hard dealing with someone with children already cause when it comes down to you alwaya gotta think about including them in something@sexii_diiva
@christineann I would do family pics after baby but I'm not comfortable with them being in maternity shots
@dec7saggirl yea I agree but I feel its weird . cuz I was thinking let's say I have another child after this child. I probably would want my oldest to be in the maternity pic but its just weird to have someone else child kissing my stomach and stuff. I guess because its not my child and you didn't come out of my vagina so it is touchy but I feel completely uncomfortable with it
Mine lives in Cali & we are in PA so she likely won't be here but if she was I would get some with her. So like a full family shot, one of her & my kids with me but I would also do me & just my kids.
exactly like its touchy cause he had a kid before me and this is my first baby but also his first daughter also but when we talked about maternity pics he never mentioned his son and the point of maternity pics is for YOU and BABY ... so after she's born yea of course i dont have a problem with taking family pics.. but i feel like its a special moment between me and him 😪😏 @sexii_diiva
@dec7saggirl I'm the same way.. my bf asked if his daughter could be in them and I said no...I don't feel comfortable with that. I want it to be just me && you. now after the baby is born we can all take family pics togegehr but even with that some I just want me him and my child . she can be in some of them tho. but I'm against maternity pics period
idk i have one but i want the shoot to be me and baby .. and some.with my bf 😬
In my opinion if I'm planning on spending my life with you and you have a child outside of me, I would include that baby as though it were mine! I would fall in love with that child and include him or her in absolutely everything I do as though she were mine of course with respect to the mother! But that's just the way I feel about it everyone's entitled to their own opinion. 😊