jus watched the man I love walk away from his family for his own needs. not only has he missed alot of time with his kids, he missed Halloween with his kids. now he will miss our sons third birthday, his first day of school, our daughters birth, thanksgiving, Christmas! yep guess its all on me ive got three beautiful kids to take care of, love and support. i know its gonna be hard but I have been doing it pretty much on my own anyways. but ive given him so much of my life. :( and im left without him but I have my kids and their all that matters to me! tomorrow is my birthday and im going to make the best of it. I feel lost without him and im heartbroken my kids will not have their father. but I cant let them grow up seeing the way he is. god give me strength and please ladies pray for me!
God bless you you're a strong mom to do it all on ur own much love & positive vibes towards ur way ❤
I'm praying for you sweetheart! Do not allow him to walk in and out of your life because as long as you let it happens he will do it! Be happy with your babies you have so much to be thankful for and you already noticed that! You're doing a great job you could do better without the drama besides why should he get to enjoy you all whenever he feels like it and not when you all need him! He's either all in or you're all out. PERIOD you deserve better and I promise you with prayer and dedication to your life and children God will give you someone to step up! Just like he has for plenty of us other girls out here! let go of the drama and the distractions and watch how God provides you with something so much better than you thought you had! I know what I'm talking about! 😚
Ugh I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I hope you can enjoy your birthday with your kiddos.
@mrscates91, yes you do! & I know but I think if he walks out on them then him not being there might just be for the best. my dad walked out on my mom, my little brothers and I, which to me was a blessing in disguise. I'm very happy I grew up with my mom and grandma. I think things will be better off for you and your kids. then maybe in the future he'll man up and really be there for you guys & be a good dad to them! just stay positive (:
ive got the most important things with me and I get to see them everyday 24/7 ill eventually be okay im more heartbroken for my kids the him actually leaving but im still upset my home is now a broken home but I really believe its for the best!
@mrscates91, you're welcome and that's horrible..I know it must hurt a lot. I think if my boyfriend did that my love wouldn't be as strong either. he's going to realize he's missing out on the most important thing, his family! I hope he realizes soon and fixes things. I really do wish you the very best!
thank you so much. this is the second time in three months he has left us! so im still healing from that. I honestly dont even know if I love him as much as I did
thank you ladies! :)