okay I need to vent... im so sick of these people thinking they know everything about a child with special needs when they dont know half of it and then they wanna say to the women that DO know alot about it need to do research and educate themselves. people like that piss me off. and I think they need to educate themselves on special needs. I myself have a little boy who has special needs and have my own personal reason why I declined any shot. everyone has their own opinion but dont go saying all this mess and bullying the ones who have a reason why they declined em. people I swear! rant over.. lol sorry ladies!