I'm due January 28th with my second baby a boy and I have a 15 month old boy, we sold and gave away…

some people have a baby shower for each kid.. some don't.. it really depends on you.. if you don't feel comfortable have a diaper bash instead

In my opinion a baby shower is for family & friends to celebrate the new arrival. So, I don't think it's wrong. But, just do what you want to do. Don't try to make others happy.

I want to do a baby shower for all the girls and the guys do the diaper bash that way my hubby is included. I just love everyone getting together and celebrating another baby coming .. but I don't want to be greedy or shellfish, I'm planning it so I'll be paying for all the decorations and food so it's not a burden on anyone. @emilyruth17 @sexii_diiva

I don't think that's greedy or shellfish. It's a sweet gesture that you're trying to get everyone involved. But, if I was you I would do them both anyway.

Thanks for the input. :) I'll probably do them both and my mom will get over it eventually

@emilyruth17,

You're welcome doll! (:

My mom with my lil sister bought her a present that had to do with her becoming a big sister (explained why she was getting the present so she didnt expect one every event) for my lil brother baby shower since she was only 4 at the time and wouldn't feel left out and dislike our brother.

I'm having a baby shower this its my second pregnancy my first son is 4 and I'm sure in February I don't think its a bad idea I'm having another little boy to we gave away all his stuff we didn't plan on having another until hrs was older only thing is we're buying all the big stuff and just registered for everything else