Just found out that my baby daddy has another child I didnt know about.. 8 mos old.. with another woman.. so I have been…

no matter what ends up happening youll be a good mother because you care enough to actually do something. i didnt have my biological mom around after i turned 4 my parents divorced and my dad moved me and my sister to utah from indiana and remarried. it was tough on us, but he did what he had to and im greatful for him at least doing that.

@kaylhunt2, I just wanted better for my children.. I didnt have my biological dad.. I wanted my son to have his real father.. but I do not want him in the environments he would be in if his biological dad was in his life.. what I am worried about is my mine & my boyfriends future... right now we are doing a long distance relationship.. im in colorado and he is in michigan.. I moved out here to experience my pregnancy with the help of my mom.. but im moving back there hopefully in may.. and we are getting a place together.. what I am worried about is if we split.. I want my son to think my boyfriend is his real dad.. and call him daddy.. if we split.. it will be really confusing for him.. im just so worried of messing up as a mother.

me and my husband are having our first child together, but he raised his two nephews until we moved out due to their mother. I played a huge huge role in raising my sisters because both of my parents worked full time. though they dont see us as their parents we both hold a special pride in their acheivements like any parent would. parents dont have to be the actual biological parents to the child.

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@countdown2klea, 3 is a lottery better than 7.. my son is #7.. shit he could have more.. thats what happens when you go after a man because he looks good.. smh :/

@sexii_diiva, his idea of being involved in their lives is buying them gifts... he is a whore. my boyfriend on the other hand has kids too but he is an AMAZING father. he is a full time daddy and his kids love the hell out of him! my boyfriend is the sweetest man on the planet. I love him with all my heart.. I WISH more than anything that my boyfriend was my son's biological dad.. but it isnt the blood that makes the father..

I feel ya! My baby's dad has 3 other kids...It's insane.

@amberlee_94 okay I get it. ... well at least you have someone that is loving && cares && wants to support you && your baby... your ex has 7 kids like how can he take care of all of them? does he? that's horrible

my son isnt born yet.. im due in november. @sexii_diiva

@sexii_diiva, im not proud of it at all.. me and ny boyfriend have been together for over a year and we were on a "break" & had a really bad fight one day.. and I went out drinking.. and ended up in bed with this loser..and got pregnant.. my boyfriend forgave me and still loves me. he said he wants to raise him as his own. but part of me really wanted my sons biological dad to be in his life.. but after finding out what I know now.. my mind is changed 100%. my son deserves the best.

how old is your son? so he has an 8 month old? && are you preg from the ex or current bf?

@sexii_diiva, my sons dad. my boyfriend isnt my sons biological dad..

I'm lost.. your ex has 7 children or your current boyfriend has 7 children?

sounds like u have it all worked out so don't even let that get to you. Your baby has a dad and that's all that matters