So I'm having a spat with a close friend about what I think isn't quite worthy of the drama it's become. My friend keeps inviting himself over to spend the night at the last minute because he will have a date in my town. He is gay so no creepiness with the over night stay and he only lives a little over an hour away. My husband is a mild Aspie and any sudden change in plans (and the fact that they don't get along well) makes my friend's visits stressful on top of I basically have to cancel or rearrange my plans to accommodate him. I told him this and he is trying to say that now I just don't want to hang out. I am hoping having an outsiders opinion can tell me if its just preggo hormones or am I justified?
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its your house and your man's house right? he has to step back. I had sleepovers all the time single. but now when I have a man I cut that out. its a respect thing and I want my man to be comfortable in our home. Then your friend and man don't get along as well. so tell him y'all can hang. let's have dinner or lunch. or go to mall. but no more sleepovers
No it's not the hormones i don't think.... It's your house your rules bottom line. If he's truly your friend he will come around :)
No its not your hormones. But he had to understand that things have changed and your trying to get ready for your family. If he wants to stay the night he needs to 1. Ask and 2. give a 24 hours notice
Thank you all so much - I have been feeling like maybe I was overacting but I'm 30 yrs old and don't understand why my friend needs to stay over. I think it's weird.