So I'm having a spat with a close friend about what I think isn't quite worthy of the drama it's become. My friend keeps inviting himself over to spend the night at the last minute because he will have a date in my town. He is gay so no creepiness with the over night stay and he only lives a little over an hour away. My husband is a mild Aspie and any sudden change in plans (and the fact that they don't get along well) makes my friend's visits stressful on top of I basically have to cancel or rearrange my plans to accommodate him. I told him this and he is trying to say that now I just don't want to hang out. I am hoping having an outsiders opinion can tell me if its just preggo hormones or am I justified?