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@meganc, haha I know right! I feel like I'm going to be in so much pain and crying or super mad lol..us females go through the most, periods..pregnancy and labor!! ):

@tavarusmommy21, exactly and their lucky they just have to deal with the yelling and being rude to them for that couple hours :)! We are bringing a human into the world:)

@meganc, haha yeah we definitely accepted the challenge xD & awe see...always do nice things in the beginning..but I hope too! because labor is going to be something more painful, exhausting and long amount of time then any pain they've been in (x

@tavarusmommy21, that's true a lot of work it is going to be. I'm excepting the challenge I guess lol. But yeah that was how my boyfriend was too everything was in the beginnings but let's hope with them seeing the labour process changes their mind ;)

@meganc, me either! (: I know its gonna be a lot of work but I'm gonna love being a mom <3 & me too! & even then he doesn't do anything. he says he's done romantic things before...I'm like yeah when we first started dating lol & thank you..you too!!! & yeah we do have a lot in common! (:

@tavarusmommy21, I know that's the same here but I wouldn't trade it for the world I would rather be taking care of my little one :))) but yeah my boyfriend isn't romantic either lol! I have to hint out details of how it would be romantic. Congrats on your anniversary though!! Seems like we have a lot of things coming up in common!!!

@meganc, I know ): it broke my heart..its for a little baby its not like it was a tv or something /; & thanks me too! I will too..I know I'll be taking care of my son on my birthday too but its okay. it'll be my first birthday with him c: & I always hope my boyfriend will be romantic but he hasn't in like a year ); that's cute!! gonna be 4 years! on July 21st it'll be my 3 years with him. <3 I hope he does something sweet for you!!

@tavarusmommy21, that horrible what kinda people do things like that!! We'll I hope that you get one! Soon, and both our birthdays are really close together. I'm more then likely gana have to be just home with the baby so hopefully BD will make a romantic dinner or something haha cause right after is our 4 yr anniversary!

@meganc,

okay good (: & haha yes the anxiety is definitely there! & yes its about 3 1/2 weeks after my due date :o & yours is close too then!! I have everything but the bassinet.. someone stole it out of my dads truck the day of my baby shower )': so he said he'll try to bring a new one this weekend. I'm praying!

And your birthday right after baby born? Mine is two weeks after my due date :/

Oh girl I will forsure @tavarusmommy21 :) and I can only imagine that anxiety!! Do you have everything you need?!

@meganc, thanks (: & maybe you'll be right too. I like those names! & oh man a little less than two months! & 6 days before my birthday haha! be sure to post what gender your baby is I can't wait to know :D

Aww see that's awesome :) congrats to you! And yeah I thought my gut was telling me a boy then the whole both names thing has me unsure. If it's a boy it's going to be names after my brother so Joshua Jonathan and a girl is Delilah Denice :) @tavarusmommy21 I find out December 4th❤️

@meganc, haha thanks (: & I always wanted a girl but i knew it was a boy..I just had a gut feeling. I was right, I'm not disappointed though because I love my little monkey lol (: but I really just wanted it to be healthy so I agree, what name do you have picked out for a girl? :D

I hope it looks as good as yours haha!! And good I love hearing good labor stories give me hope still. @tavarusmommy21 , and I really wanted a boy like my whole life literally but now that me and baby dad have a really good girl name too makes me want anything healthy:))

@meganc, haha okay I can't wait to see you're baby bump when its big :D & haha right! & yes I'll definitely let you know what goes on during my labor after it happens (: do you want a girl or boy? c:

@tavarusmommy21, I'll post a pic the day I wake up and that happens :) but seriously that's same here I'm a big ol baby when it comes to pain! So I plan on it but hats off to the ones that can do it natural! Excited to hear your labor story soon!

@meganc, its the truth lol! it felt like I woke up one morning and it was way more big xD & honestly I want an epidural.. I respect all the ladies that can go natural but I dont handle pain well lol (:

@tavarusmommy21, yeah I know I'm enjoying it while it lasts everyone does say be prepared cause one day your gana wake up like holy cow where did my belly come from! Also ready whenever too :) but yeah I bet it's nerve racking! Are you planning natural or epidural?

@meganc, & yeah! so soon..I'm very excited but nervous! /;

@meganc, yeah i know, I felt the same way during my early pregnancy but now that I am..I miss having no tummy (: just for the fact none of my clothes look right & the struggle of everything lol..like getting out of bed, painting my toenails & shaving..its all difficult! it will be good for your relationship but difficult for you ): enjoy the little tummy for now :D

Never mind haha just read your profile congrats times coming up quick for ya

@tavarusmommy21, awesome I'll definetly remember that!! It makes me depressed even though I'm early I just want to show already for that hope of things being better. Are you still pregnant if so how far along??

@meganc, lol he was very stupid for even asking, he got super mad at me for not walking though lol. I mean I wasn't huge but seriously..I had a tummy & I get tired fast..especially in that heat! & yes my boyfriend was the same way! when my stomach really became noticeable that's when everything got way better. just wait until you start showing, I think that's when he'll really treat you better! then he'll see you're carrying his baby and it'll probably feel real to him (: & its no problem, same here! if you ever need to talk I'm here! (:

@tavarusmommy21, that's so stupid he thought you would do that!! You had to be showing and stuff by then as we'll. some times he'll look at me like your not pregnant just because I am not showing. So to me I think it will be when I get a belly he'll start finally realizing I am pregnant! I appreciate tho it is nice to have someone to talk to finally.

@meganc, you're welcome..I think it takes some males longer to accept the fact that they got someone pregnant. my boyfriend was EXACT the same way..I was 6 months pregnant and he expected me to walk to his house in 108+ degree weather..& he lives 2-3 miles from me. I think it will get better for you too though! I really hope so!!! keep your head up & stay positive! (:

@tavarusmommy21, @natassja97 , @wyattsmommy91 , and @antonia2501 thanks y'all. I am sorry to hear that for you all especially tho happy that it's gotten better for you all. And yeah he says he doesn't trust me and this and that! It's realllly hard. He even said today I'm being lazy and I'm not even really pregnant enough to be complaining. So I hope once time goes on he gets more into it cause it's breaking my heart!!

hugs that's so hard

@meganc, mine was horrible at the beginning it just got better like 2 weeks ago. they just need time to figure out their emotions. I hope things get better for you

mine was bad in the beginning but it got really good closer too the end @meganc

@meganc, it changed mine...it was HORRIBLE until I was like 20 weeks..he'd say the baby wasn't his or he hates me, that he wishes he got another girl pregnant etc..he was very immature..probably due to our age but since I was 22 weeks, he's been very remorseful for the things he's said, bought baby clothes, and even started working two jobs to take care of me and our baby. it just took sometime but now he's amazing. I know what you're feeling. I hope things get better for you!!! <3