I hear if you lube yourself and stretch your wooha it can prevent tearing. However I worry about it staying stretched after the baby. it's like constantly stretching a rubber band until it's just big... what do you ladies think?
some times you don't tear, my ob had to cut me with my first because she was to big, you get stitches afterwards , and you don't stay stretched out ,
oh OK so I probably won't do the lube prestretching think