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Kate Caudill

idk what to do im actually scared to be in my own house. my mom and I got into a disagreement and she started screaming…

idk what to do im actually scared to be in my own house. my mom and I got into a disagreement and she started screaming at me and got in my face i thought she was going to hit me. she has depression and she has bipolar paranoia i just dont know what to do anymore. i called my dad and he doesnt know what to tell me bc he doesnt want to tlk bad about her and my MIL and FIL have given their opinion but dont want to say too much either i just wish someone wld tell me what to do bc i really dont know what to do i know what i want to do i just dont know how to go about it

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siyah

chrisiya

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that's what we are her for to support ☺

missing35user

missing35user

No problem 😆

kate0329

Kate Caudill

i plan to thanks @alegria10 and @siyah it helps to be able to tlk to ppl

missing35user

missing35user

& just try to stay as far away from her as possible.

missing35user

missing35user

Oh lord well I would just get on getting her into a nursing home & just trying to get her out as soon as possible.

kate0329

Kate Caudill

im going to the police department tomorrow morning to see if they know of anywhere i can send her . honestly theyll probably take matters into their hands and send her to a mental Institute which is Fine with me as Long as shes gone

kate0329

Kate Caudill

nope shes has no family or friends , im all she had besides my inlaws and their done with her too after tonight . she actually told them to tell me and my hubby to leave so she cld stay @alegria10

missing35user

missing35user

She doesn't have anywhere else she can go? family? friends? just until you can get her into a nursing home?

kate0329

Kate Caudill

i completly want her gone id just prever to have it done within the next couple of days tonight proved i cant talk to her bc its what started the whole problem. i agree with both of you i just dont kno what to do to make it happen within the week

siyah

chrisiya

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Again I agree with @alegria10 but just run that bye her first. Tell her you do not feel safe and she needs to try her best to control herself. I know you will not like the fact of putting out your sick mama but what if she do get physical and hurt you and baby? You just have to think of the best for you and your child even if it is a hard choice to make

missing35user

missing35user

put her in the nursing home give her no other option let her know you aren't going to have that in your house! you can't not be scared to sleep in your own home!

kate0329

Kate Caudill

shes supposed to but the insurance wont cover two of them and we dont have the money to pay for them after bills get paid nd money is set Aside for ob appts @siyah

siyah

chrisiya

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I agree 100% with you @alegria10 ....nobody should be scared to go in there own home remind her that she is staying with you and she shouldn't be doing all that. Do she take meds?

kate0329

Kate Caudill

i had already decided she was going back to a nursing home and when i told her thats when all hell broke loose . i had started the process of getting her bck into one but then this happened tonight nd idk how to get her out of here like tomorrow bc my hubby refuses to sleep bc me and his parents are all afraid of what she might try bc of her mental problems. nd i just want her gone im just done with it all once shes gone ill never have anything to do with her again bc i dnt dnt her to get the fiance to mentally or physically hurt my daughter . i just dont know what to do to make her be gone tomorrow

missing35user

missing35user

You gotta do what you gotta do for the safety of yourself & your child. I know it sounds harsh but if she has to go she has to go you can't have that in your life that's scary. what if the next time she does get physical? or maybe you should talk to her or have your fiance talk to her

kate0329

Kate Caudill

thanks , nd it is i had no idea it wld be like this when we let her move in I didnt even know about her mental probs till we got her here

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