is it normal if im having cramping on my sides ? is it just my cervix expanding ?

I know the epidural messed up My back -.- @bree_monique43

really, I heard their more painful with a girl? I had 2 girls and they weren't bad at all (except the last hour with my second) so I guess I wouldn't know. Just make sure you ask your doctor to prescribe you some pain medication when you get released because the epidural causes bad headaches and back pain for a week or 2 . so worth it compared to the contractions lol

@mommy0307

I think Im going to need it with my baby boy as well I heard the contractions are even more painful then when having a girl >. < noo @bree_monique43

oh my god I had my daughter 2 weeks ago and I had no choice! I had to go natural because the guy who did the epidurals was with someone else! I was screaming and crying for an hour before my baby was born and my poor boyfriend was even crying seeing me like that. the night was great until it started hurting real bad lol

@mommy0307

@bree_monique43, lol girl same here with my first I was in labor for a whole day with contractions there was no way in hell I was doing it without the epidural

ugh agreed! I'm a huge baby when it comes to pain I complained about everything lol the last month my boyfriend would just be like "it hurts again?" I was such a bug haha

it feels like when labor contractions are bearly starting :( im a baby when it comes to any pain @kateferrera

I know, it sucks :( try to relax. Try taking a warm bath, that works wonders, trust me!

it hurts -,- ughh @kateferrera

Could be your uterus stretching... Don't worry, it's normal :)