this is a little different then most posts .. But I feel like I wanna share & get others opinions.
So I'm due November 20th, & have really had a tough time through my pregnancy , which you're suppose to be happy & enjoy being pregnant .. But when my daughter is born, I'm requested by my boyfriend & his mother to get a DNA test, because on February 8th I went out for a girls night & didn't end up coming home, so a lot of accusations were made .. I got my last period February 13th .. I know I didn't cheat on him & even my girlfriends said that nothing happened.
... Also his ex has not left us alone, has made threats towards me ...
Has been texting him .. & the worst part about everything is that his ex is now my frenemy .. She was 7 months pregnant when her & my boyfriend started dating & was happy & moved on (or so I thought) she even said she was happy for the both of us .. Turns out my boyfriend is most likely her 1 year old sons father .. & it's honestly the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with.
Iv seen pictures & the boy looks similar to him more then the actually "baby daddy".
... I just don't understand why I'm put in this situation. :( it's so hard to deal with! 😭💔
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Keep your head up. If you have nothing to hide don't worry. Leave it in God's hands. And I am sorry you are going through this, but God has plans for you. God bless you.
Awhhh that's awful :( so why aren't yous together if you've already got kids & love each other?
& it's the hardest thing iv had to deal with .. because he's still so close with her family & I dunno if he's texting her or not .. I have seen her number texting him when we got him a new phone number (he said she got his number from her mother) which is most likely true .. I wanna believe that he's not talking to her & doesn't want anything to do with her .. But also I know it hurts him to see that baby boy knowing it's his & he wanted a boy but we ended up having a girl.
... she even sends him pictures of her son , when the other guy still believes he's the father!
But the kid has blonde hair blue eyes & is white ! The dad had dark everything & is Hispanic.. You'd think buddy would know the kid isn't his.
It's just hard knowing he's got a son with my ex friend ... & now I have his daughter :(
I know dealing with something like that is hard on you especially during this process, but I completely understand how your feeling. my sons father and I broke up about a year ago and he met someone else thought he fell in love but realized she wasnt the one. im currently pregnant with our second child but we're not together I still am in love with him and him with me we live together and everything but we're not a couple we've been together for 6 years his ex even tried to say I wasn't pregnant with his child this time around his mother and I dont get along at all anymore she even told him to get a dba test when this baby is born I gladly told him there's no doubt that this baby is his but if he has any doubts about it we can get a dna test as soon as he's born. I have nothing to hide and neither do you so if you have to get that test dod to prove them wrong then do it you can be strong thru this even if it takes crying everyday
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