ok so this is pregnancy #5 for me. #4 was a surrogacy, this one is my #4 baby for me. my first labor delivery was tough the hospital and care givers sucked. all of the rest I was induced and did natural labor no drugs. here is the long and the short my mom was there for all of them holding my hand. she always knew what I needed I never had to say anything she just knew all I had to worry about was staying focused and having the baby. my mom passed away Nov 2011. I will be doing this without her. there is no one else like her. I'm scared and can't really pull together my vision of labor delivery without her......😥
thanks guys. I know she will be there but these darn hormones make it hard to think about planning without remembering that she won't be there.
sorry for your losses... u got this you have a angel by ur side to watch over you and protect u and ur baby
@kidtyme, don't worry. you've got this. your mom is there with you still. she will be watching over you the whole time. just keep her in mind.
I'm sorry hunny! She will still be there! Even though she is not there physically, you'll still feel her there. Just talk to her as if she were there and it will feel just as loving! Sending love and support!