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Allanna Patrick

RANT: I've got to the point where even looking at my kitchen nauseates me. I have an open concept house so there is no…

RANT: I've got to the point where even looking at my kitchen nauseates me. I have an open concept house so there is no avoiding the kitchen. Some days I don't even want to come home because I know I'll have to look at it... Stupid I know! It's super sad because I LOVED FOOD before I got pregnant and I was always in the kitchen. I feel terrible because, my husband is an amazing cook but, he's not understanding that most anything he cooks right now is going to upset my stomach. When I start getting sick I run off to the bedroom so, he thinks that I think what he has cooked is disgusting. But really, it's just the sensitivity to smells that makes me run off. Poor guy has taken the short end of the stick. He's been doing all the kitchen work... Cooking, cleaning, doing dishes, & etc. honestly this first trimester has put me on the ground. No energy to clean, no sex drive, everything that has to do with a kitchen makes me sick, I'm moody, and I feel ugly (bloated and tons of acne). IM OVER IT. By the end of this my husband is going to want a divorce. LOL. On with the good news... I had my first Doctors appointment today and the baby looked AMAZING! Doctor referred to it as a gummy bear! I thought it was super cute because I LOVE GUMMY BEARS (currently)! She was impressed with how much it was moving around. The heart was just pounding away! She measured me at 9w1d. I calculated 8w5d. Super excited!

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ajpatrick

Allanna Patrick

Thank you!

kaylhunt2

Kayleigh

i was the same way in my first trimester. and it took me until the end of my second to start getting my energy back. its really tough, especially when you dont fit into your clothes and dont have a belly yet. i had a really hard time with it, just take time to communicate with your husband how you are feeling and it really should help.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates…

i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.

do you... Clean up after your SO is done cooking? Or vice versa? DF was cooking and while he was cooking I unloaded the…

do you... Clean up after your SO is done cooking? Or vice versa? DF was cooking and while he was cooking I unloaded the dish washer and hand washed the pot he had used and put dishes in the dish washer, so by the time he got his plate, dishes were done and left overs were in Tupperware on the counter just in case anyone wanted seconds and counters were wiped down. The room mate asked me why I do that, and I just say that's how I was raised. I always clean up after anyone cooks in the house, even after myself. I clean as I cook, so DF doesn't clean up because it's done before dinner is finished lol. But there's rare occasions where he'd be in the kitchen while I cook so he does help out with the cleaning since i cook during the day sometimes so we can heat it up when it's dinner time. I want everyone to get their first and seconds before I eat. My mom has taught me to always clean up after your spouse makes dinner, it's only fair. They put their effort into cooking, you should always help them out.