Teen mom and I thought it would be the perfect love story because it's my first loves child.. Been together for three years but was on and off but I always found myself forgiving him for causing me so much pain.. found out I was pregnant one day after I was really ready to call it quits! knowing he's my babydaddy makes me love him even more, but he don't come see me, don't go to any doctor appointment but kik me like everything's okay!! I have a feeling ima be taking care of my child on my own! I just want him to care; it was unexpected but still.. where both still very young. I'm so done, I can't keep allowing him to hurt me! What should I do😩
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if he doesn't want to be there let him go. I know that is easier said than done. I was 17 with my first he was 16. it took 11 years for him to come around. it took me a long time to realize just how sick I was making myself trying to push him to care. when I finally stopped pushing it was about a year later he started making calls and reaching out. she is 14 now and we have a wonderful relationship but not as a couple. just as her mom and dad. I know I can rely on him for anything and I would do almost anything for him but there is no romance. hang in there but don't make yourself sick over it. you have one baby on the way and men can usually be a bigger responsibility.
Thank you so much. Seemed like no one else could ever understand.. like I gave enough chances sometimes I think it's my fault. I blame it on myself... but Ima do what I have to do. Love my baby unconditionally. and I got enough love for the both of us! @mommytantrum
You're going to be okay babe. It seems like the worst but you'll have so much love for this child. If his dad can't grow up and be around that's not your fault and your doing nothing wrong. It still hurts and is hard though. My baby's dad is an alcoholic and I left him and he has yet to sober up or get treatment. Some days I feel like the world is crashing down on me. Be strong and if you are a person of faith than know that this is part of His plan. I hope you have family and friends to lean on too. BIG HUGS going out to you!
@march21st, oh I didn't know he was a teen too but with that being said you need to just sit back, eat and enjoy!!
I know I can't. Me and mine is going to be straight regardless! just going through a phase @allyandbaby
Having a baby won't keep a guy around. You can't make someone be there and take care of a baby if they don't want too.
I don't know what it is. You know boys don't tell there feelings. I just feel like he's not stepping up to the plate. I mean we're both teens, I just want him to experience what I'm experiencing @anna1114
his first time going to my doctor's appointment was at 21 weeks and since then he goes even when it's just a check up
understandable very understandable. would you rather stress over him being petty for the rest if your pregnancy or just relax and watch your baby grow? I cried every night the first 3 months I even begged him to be with me (so not cute) but I just moved away and picked my head up and now we cant stay away from eachother. we are born mothers men aren't. is he scared?
It shouldn't be when he wants to. He should always want too. It really stresses me out @anna1114
omg I have literally been in the same position you are. me and my boyfriend have been together 4yrs on and off and the same thing happens, while we are on the verge of calling it quits I found out I was prego. long story short if yall really love eachother everything will work oit in the end. I am going on 8 months and he didnt step in until I was 4 months. once I stopped calling him etc he came running to me. we went from not being together to us on tango 3x a day I have to record when the baby moves and the list goes on. please dont stress over that just say fuck it and he will come around
I will take care of you