I love my daughter dearly. She's got such personality already and shes not even here but im starting to think maybe it would be in her best interest if I put her up for adoption. She deserves stability and a two-parent based family. I dont have that to provide at the moment.
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hey gm as most of u said at d end of d day its her decision she's d one who know ways best for her at this time.am not sayin she doin d rite thing but on d other hand its easy for all of us to say or easy to agree or disagree .I do agree with way the young lady said about her friend still keep intouch with her baby that she given up for adoption.anyway sweetheart its ur life ur choice if y need to chat am here
@_prayse_ I'm 20 years old , I still live with my parents and we just lost our house and just relocated to a smaller house I'm 16 about to be 17 weeks pregnant and at the beginning I considered adoption but I knew I couldn't do it. Although money is very tight right now and I share a room and bed with my older sister I try to save as much as possible, I am also a college student , and I know if I save and just be positive I can do it. It's your choice at the end of the day and I know you will do what's best for you and your baby. I just hope if you do decide to put her up for adoption you won't regret it as I feared I would. Keep your head up and be strong. You can do anything you set your mind to.
It's up to you at the end of the day, go with what your heart can handle. I know someone who have their child up for an adoption, but she was kept as a family friend and always got to be around, every birthday and every holiday, and on her 18th birthday they told her who her biological mom was, and that didn't change a thing in their lives. There are many options for you, but do what is best for you and your baby, and if adoption is it, be brave, it'll be tough, but always know why you're doing it.
it's ur decision at the end of the day but it's not impossible she's a blessing. from God he's bringing her into ur life to motivate you and make you better he doesn't make mistakes...
Sorry to hear that. This isn't about me partying and all that other stuff most teens my age do. I never did it before I was pregnant and it doesn't interest me now. She wasn't planned but she didn't ask to be brought into the world either. I live with four other people, I share a room and a bed with my mom because that's all we can afford at the moment. Government assistance is crap due to the fact that there are actually people who take advantage of it. Her father is back home in SA, where he gets to live a life of luxury. I don't have a room I can put her in, time is winding down, funds are low, and I just want to do what's best for my baby.
I understand where it coming from my oldest sister suggested that for her 2nd pregnancy it was really hard for her at the the time but even though it was her.it's a decision that affected and affects me still till this very day I have a nephew some where in this world in the last time I seen him was the second day of his life I jus wish I would have known him...😓😓😢
Am? I don't have the means to take of her financially, etc. that's what I meant by stability. I was struggling before her. Selfish would be to keep a child I can't take care of.
😳 really? Aren't you acting out of your selfish intentions rather than pure love and care?... You are only 19... Maybe you shall get an advise from yr parents? What would the say? Anyway.. God bless you sweety, hopefully you ll find the right path..! Carry on!
I know your trying to do what's best for the baby but all the people I've known endup regretting that ,yes it's not the best time to have one but your bless to have one and I promise seeing and having your baby will make your days a little bit better ,but good luck Hun I wish the best for you ☺️