Yeah, they think whatever is good for them is what should be done. My sisters boyfriend waits on her hand and foot, mine doesn't, he'll help me and get me stuff, but I like to clean and cook and do that stuff myself and she'll put my guy down for that and for wanting to go to work to get money up and stuff like that. She thinks if I have a tiny ache or pain I need to run to the doctors and not trust my body or what I'm feeling, I'm selfish if I don't get looked at over a growing a pain and I trust my body, it's frustrating. I'm under a lot of stress, because of my baby shower and my families, my guys family isn't being very good to us, especially not me and puts me down for not making him cut them off, she doesn't understand it's family, it's harder than that. And she can't under the fact we're different people, different relationships, and we have different problems, and different ideals. I'm living my life the way that makes me happy or puts me at peace and that's it. And your sister shouldn't make you feel like that and I'm sorry she does. She should be there to help you, not make you feel guilty or do things to hurt you and put more on you, you already have enough to deal with, you don't need that.

I'm married and it's going great. But on that note.. I don't talk to my belly.. I can't get behind it. I'll sing and turn my music up that's about all the interaction I do. But that doesn't mean I'm not connected to my baby. I feel him move and it makes me happy! He feels me and I feel him. No words need to be spoken. ~ that's how I feel anyway. I have much respect for you. I can't imagine doing it a lone. Best of luck to you. And know you have people who support you. Anytime you need to talk. :)

@lulukiddy I agree with you it is much harder with a sister! My sister is still in her marriage and he has been very supportive of them both today I even caught him kiss her stomach and it made me feel horrible😢 she wasn't intentional trying to make me feel bad I know that for sure but she looked at me crazy when I says I don't do them things... She doesn't understand the pain I'm going through knowing I'm married and pregnant and my husband left me all because he believed marriage shouldn't be a job... I know there's a disconnect I feel it but I'm trying to find a way to connect and she doesn't understand that

My twin sister and I are both pregnant, she's about 2 months behind me though, she can't relate to anything, she has never has stress or much problem, and acts like being as far along as she is she knows everything and I know nothing and that my problems are nothing to hers when all she has a some growing pain, but acts like she's being killed.. It hurts, I can't give her advice and she treats me like I'm ignorant. I'm right months pregnant and got the belly to prove it and she thinks the world revolves around her, I'm sorry about my venting like that, but I feel like being pregnant with a sister is so much harder than it would be with a friend. And I believe you may connect with you baby a different way, I don't talk to my belly as my as I used to, it's not that I don't have a connection, I like our talks to be special and private and about things that I don't just randomly bring up. I always cry when I do as well, so that also makes it harder to since I get emotional and I don't want to harm her. You're gonna do things differently, but that doesn't make you any less great, even as a single mom, that makes you a hero! <3