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canducci
canducci
canducci
I’m 23 weeks and have felt very alone during my pregnancy. I’m married to a great guy but as of late it gets harder being left at home alone for at least three nights a week. Also when he goes out, he stays out till 2am. Before I was pregnant we would do that together, but now.. I don’t care that he goes out sometimes. I have only asked that he be home by 11 during the week bc it’s hard for me to sleep knowing he’s not home and I have to work the next day. I don’t know what to do. I don’t have any good friends that I hang out with other than the guys. So.. Now its feels like I have no one... I lost touch with all my girlfriends that I had growing up.. I’m just tired of feeling depressed and crying the nights he’s gone. Thoughts? Comments?
06.06.2014
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canducci
@sindie thanks! I tried telling him how it makes me feel.. But I don't think he gets it. So I have a plan to go see movies and stay out late myself. It worked one night. He got home and I was gone. Lol did him like he does me. Be home in 10 and didn't come home till a hour later. :) It's not a trust issue and he's not out late due to work. That would be understandable. I just sleep better with him being in bed. And being alone with no one to talk to makes you kinda crazy.
12.06.2014 Нравится Ответить
sindie
You should ask him to be more sensitive and come earlier.. It's not ok ( I understand you. I told my husband that it's very important to me, I felt the same
12.06.2014 Нравится Ответить
lulukiddy
Lauren·Мама сына (11 лет)
I have this same problem, but I had to be honest with my guy and tell him how I felt, he understood, and actually tries to stay home more, especially when I feel emotional or just feel bad, try talking and sharing how you feel, I don't mind my guy going out, but feeling lonely isn't fun, talk and see if that helps.
07.06.2014 Нравится Ответить
steffanapolous
I'm right there with you hun. My boyfriend is a COO for a computer company, and works from 9 am-2 am almost everyday with only one day off a week. It takes a huge toll on any relationship, but you just have to stay strong and remember he's working hard for you. You also have to remember to trust the man you love when he's away, because there's no love without trust and he's your partner for a reason. Hang in there mama! ❤️
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