How surprised/disappointed were you after you had your baby on how much you partner helped/or didn't? I feel like I was so surprised when we got home from the hospital that he didn't even stay up the first night or any nights with me? Now we have a toddler and he still sleeps in on the weekends til 8am. I am the sahm I get it (to a point) but how much is enough? I have expressed that I wanted a second child at first but when I saw how little he helped I seriously doubted we (I) could do it. Not ...