I have been with my boyfriend over a year, and we have a 3 month old daughter together, since she has been born I have been feeling very under appreciated, he doesn't do anything nice to surprise me, or want to take me out on dates, he always has free time and is able to do the things he wants to while I'm not, I've been trying so hard to surprise him and be romantic there's just no effort on his part, I can't force him I don't know what more I can do