So I'm new to this but, Me and my girlfriend are trying to plan a pregnancy, we're bot military but we don't really know where to start as in finding a donor...😞 right now that's the hardest part for us... Dont really know how to get started other than tracking menstruals and ovulation and things of that nature. Been trying to figure this out for about 7 months now. Ugghhhh just overall frustrated really...