Почему мужчина отталкивает меня ночью и злится на подушку между нами?
So bf every night pushes me away to cuddle he says cuz bed uncomfortable and i kept getting pushed away so i slept at the bottom of bed or put a pillow in between us and gets mad he says not like im doing this on purpose why it’s only it’s ok when it’s convenient for him to cuddle when he wants to cuddle but not me ? Why can’t I get comfortable with trying to find ways to sleep by cuddling a pillow or sleep upside down I point things out and turn it around it’s my fault.
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I would stop trying and just go after that pillow to cuddle with, sleep upside-down, whatever makes you comfortable. I would rather have mine comfort than not having one.
@cutiecrumbs.jellymuffin, why if he gets mad still what I tell him?
Just tell him this is my comfort and the only way I can sleep to get comfortable without you cuddling me and pushing me away. Don't like it. Sleep on the couch.
Don't let him control you, nor let him take your comfort away from you. You do that he knows he has more power over you.
Some guys just don't like to be cuddled, especially at night.
My boyfriend is the same way. He will be pushing me away when I try to cuddle him due to me making him hot when he likes the cold.
Have you tried and explained to your boyfriend that you need a pillow for comfort/cuddle or need to sleep on the bottom to get comfortable?