Молодая мама в слезах от осуждения других родителей - как быть?
You know I don't care anymore those who are saying I'm a bad parents thanks but I know I'm not! My son is well raised and taken care of. You don't even know the reason why I had a son it was my decision to keep him I really didn't have to but I did because I don't believe in abortions and my baby boy never asked to be alive it was the sperm donors fault. Honestly I asked for help not down shaking my parenting 😭 I'm only a single 20 year old mother trying to pay bills and making sure her son has everything he needs and wants. Not me sitting here bawling my eyes out because of other parents saying I'm a bad parents I'm sorry you feel that way but for now on I'm just going to hold everything inside even though I shouldn't have to hold everything inside I should be able to speak how I feel but clearly can't without being judged!
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I had to work from Friday 2 to 11 then Saturday and Sunday from 5 pm until 6 am I need to change my schedule to part time 😔 or change my availability
@kadencec99 why your schedule is fine and if your mom is your sitter then thats fine too but it doesnt matter if your mom watches your kid or a daycare or another sitter your child will get sick and other sick kids have the chance to be around them. So blocking your mom that was your sitter is a little much when she was helping you out.
I don’t think anyone is saying you’re a bad parent I think people are just trying to give you constructive criticism, trying to give advice. Not everyone is going t agree, I think if you’re willing to post things on a public app you should expect some judgement or criticism from people. I don’t think your mother should have lied about your sister being sick, but I do think if you suspected she was maybe he shouldn’t have stayed there all weekend. I get you’re a single mom and trying to pay the bills I think most people do. I think you’re a new mom trying to figure things out on your own and sometimes you’ll make mistakes but you have to learn from them also and sometimes learning is listening to other people who are alittle more experienced.
I understand that and yes your correct but I'm honestly not trying to ruin my day it's fine I'll will just quit my job I'll figure out something no one even knows how I got pregnant
@kadencec99, no one said you have to quit your job and no none of us know how you got pregnant.
No one said you were a bad mother. If your mom is your childcare then just like in life with all other moms who work and are single parents your kid will be exposed to illnesses. Now if you weren't working over the weekend and left the baby there knowing another child was possibly sick but again you weren't working then you can't be mad at your mom because you are the parent to the baby and you could have kept him home all weekend with you. To block your mom/sitter because the baby got sick because you had to work and thats all you had to watch your kid then again thats not fair to your mom. No one is saying go quit your job and no is judging that you are a single mom. There are a ton of single moms, single married moms, moms with multiple jobs and kids and at the end of the day its life