anacort
Cortmama
Почему он злится на меня?
I told my man how I felt about facebook about me being hidden he told me he didn’t know why u couldn’t see my friends or anything I post before then he tells me he protected me from the girl that blacked mailed him then It was cause he was still was waiting for his divorced been final so he couldn’t post me and him but I told him my ex husband he hide me from Facebook before as well he now said u making me feel like ur compare me as ur ex and I’m different he says I’m not the same as other guys u dated why u compare me Now he mad at me I was just idk why I’m feeling this way of what I’m saying it the same I just wanted to feel like I’m important and I express how I feel what I saw now it’s my fault ? I just wanted to feel like I was being shown off to the world that I feel I was important but tell me he keeping me safe cause last girl blocked mailed him I feel like my fault now to express my feelings to him everyone gets upset when I express my feelings idk why I even said anything if they going to get mad?
07.11.2024
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mujerstillregal
@anacort keep going and doing what the therapist tells you to do. You need to learn how to not let the trauma affect you. Tell your therapist that you can't respond to trauma well
08.11.2024 Нравится Ответить
anacort
@mujerstillregal, therapy says this can u help me understand what it means we talked about my bf trigger my trauma when I was blocked from Facebook and he said was keeping me safe but all my ex bf blocked me and couldn’t see them I want to be fully integrated in your life and you in mine; if I was fully integrated my trauma triggers would go down; the reason I get triggered is because something doesnt line up and seems off; it doesnt make sense all the way and seems inconsistent or incongruent
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anacort
Why am I thinking next guy gonna be the same I don’t want to feel this way thinking there the same it just so happen it trigger my trauma of my ex husband and ex bf and someone new and there not all the same every guy diff and don’t want to feel this way of thinking of but guys in the past has blame me for things and hide things from me like wasn’t added to Facebook I was always hidden why do I see it with the next guy not trying to compare but came off like I was I just explaining my ex just didn’t add me to Facebook and I was blocked what I do should I not think this way or what move on cause things trigger my trauma by him having me blocked and couldn’t see friends post or his friends list what would u think u would do with this trauma happen to u that ur old bf did this to u and u see the resembles ?
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icebergahead
Sounds like lies and incoherent excuses.
Do not be manipulated so easily, unless you want to spend the rest of your time/days/years covering for his behaviors all the while feeling like 💩 about yourself and your overall livelyhood.
Some POS men out there (and women) get away with so much crap it is sometimes unbelievable. Stay safe✌️
Do not be manipulated so easily, unless you want to spend the rest of your time/days/years covering for his behaviors all the while feeling like 💩 about yourself and your overall livelyhood.
Some POS men out there (and women) get away with so much crap it is sometimes unbelievable. Stay safe✌️
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anacort
What do u mean ? What made u think he manipulated? He said he keeping me safe and was waiting for divorce is final
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jays.mom.
It sounds like you may need to take a break and just find yourself and let somebody come into your life when the time is right.. especially if this is the same boyfriend that you’ve been posting about
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anacort
It’s just a trigger trauma response I know all guys are diff but why am I seeing this with the next person when I’m not trying to think he the same but I just saw that I was blocked from everything then he said was gonna add me on Facebook and add pic of me and him together but why did I gotta bring it up I want to show to the world or am I pushing to much of it just no guys done that show me there spouse on facebook why i gotta bring it up?
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m00my2five
@anacort okay,good. You deserve better girl. Know your worth and treat yourself with respect so your kids are getting a healthy mama
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m00my2five
@anacort I'm not in that relationship, so what I think doesn't matter. How does it make you feel? The fact that you are hidden and excuse after excuse is given with no change.
12.11.2024 Нравится Ответить
caffeinequeen.
Sounds like he is making excuses and also he is just putting it on you cause he is wrong so he is trying to make you feel like it’s your fault
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You need to find a therapist and tell them everything you post on here. Maybe you need a therapist who specializes in trauma. Healing is very important for the future. Especially since you have children. Your children are learning how to behave in the world from you.