What does 'try too hard not likable' mean?

Seriously.

Why and I do have one my whole life

@ekko, what?

What do u mean ? 😊

Self-care with auditory processing disorder starts with understanding all the ways that APD may affect you. Certainly, APD affects your ability to understand what you hear. It may also affect your self-confidence and self-esteem. That said, taking steps to make it easier for you to understand what you hear can help you feel more confident.

I met them once only how they going to confirm that I don’t talk to them I don’t have there number my bf asked about what they thought of me I never asked him to ask he told me what he asked and what they said and I thought it was rude how else should I take something that was really rude idk if it means go be with my bf to hang out with them again or not go and he tells me to go but hard to be around someone who said that I’m just trying to understand correctly and I was being myself and how she know how I’m not being myself when I was shy the whole time that is normal self of me and then ur bf lets them be rude to me so they can let his friend treat me like that? I thought u stand up for one another not people down all one ping to understand where there getting that info by meeting them once when never been told this before by someone I had a hard time making friends for 25 years and still I can’t make friends no one comes up to me and my bf wants me to be friends with his friends

I’m confused how I’m confirming when asking other people how to take it they ask to be friends or no

Self-care with auditory processing disorder starts with understanding all the ways that APD may affect you. Certainly, APD affects your ability to understand what you hear. It may also affect your self-confidence and self-esteem. That said, taking steps to make it easier for you to understand what you hear can help you feel more confident.

@caffeinequeen., I was told I’m really nice person even my ex husband family but I can’t make friends it’s hard for me idk why no one likes me it’s all my fault for 25 years no one wants to be friends with me

@caffeinequeen., if u tried 25 years and then u get back up and still no one wants to try to be friends they judge before getting to know me and it hurts and I just want to cry I been trying to meet people and my trauma back on again of memory idk what I’m doing wrong no one tells me so I want to fix it and I can’t

@anacort, I think you need to just let it go. It’s one person vs how many in the world I am sure not everyone thinks this of you.

@love_linds, I am myself I just want to know how I did something wrong ? I never asked them what they thought of me

@love_linds, I met them one time and I was shy wasn’t very talkative and I was being myself and I never ask them what they thought of me so how could they think that?

Self-care with auditory processing disorder starts with understanding all the ways that APD may affect you. Certainly, APD affects your ability to understand what you hear. It may also affect your self-confidence and self-esteem. That said, taking steps to make it easier for you to understand what you hear can help you feel more confident.