How would u take it u meet someone friend and they told u that ur try to hard to be likable would u be upset about it? Or move on and they just met u and they said that to u?
@anacort, IMO you should be allowed to feel however you feel. Don’t deny your feelings. Acknowledge it. Feel it. Often that is the first step to moving past it and letting it go. That person you just met and said this to you is an A-hole IMO. That’s ok too. Perhaps the two of you have different personalities and aren’t suited to be friends. We are all different. That being said, when you’re ready to move on understand that there isn’t anything wrong with you. There are millions of others out there who are just like you and more compatible to be your friend. Focus on finding them and let go of that other sorry excuse of a person
No time for toxic people. Do you girl. You got this.
@buneeh, I had a hard time making friends 25 years and it’s my trauma and it hurts one someone new say something like that and bf said i shouldn’t get mad if her opinion I just met her and he said move past it how can u move past something like that when ur feelings were hurt and getting over it like nothing happens ?
@buneeh, well what I do my bf friends and he took a 3 weeks to tell me of how I would react to it so now I don’t think he would tell me things like this cause I got upset about it.