Отношения с отцом

Father’s Day is approaching and I feel this in my soul.. every year is the same and I get extreme pressure from my mom to show up and be there to do something nice for my Dad. We aren’t close, we don’t talk unless I go to my parent’s house or they come here for an occasion unless he needs something then I’ll get a random text.
It’s always kinda been put on me that “I don’t try to have a relationship either” but now that I am a mom I couldn’t imagine not trying to fix what I’ve broken or not talking to my child to see how they are, I feel it’s a parents job to step up and be a parent not the child’s job. But anywho I just needed to get that off my chest somewhere safe.

If you read all this thanks you’re a trooper 🩷